Kinder Aufsicht, Kinder Betreuung, Kinder Erziehung?
Hallo zusammen,
ich habe ein Dilemma. Unsere Nachbarin hat eine kleine Tochter 7 Jahre. Oft, wenn ich auf den Balkon gehe, sehe ich die kleinere Tochter auf den Balkon spielen… Jedes Mal bekomme ich Herzinfarkt. Die haben dort eine Bank stehen und die Tochter setzt sich praktisch schon fast auf die Kante und ist am Wippen… Jedes Mal wenn ich das sehe kommt mein Herz hoch, da ich selber Kinder habe und vielleicht doch überempfindlich reagiere.
Soll ich sowas melden? Was meint Ihr?
Why report?
Tell the mother.
The mother sees this, but she doesn’t mind.
Talk to your neighbor about your worries. Could the child come to you to play if the mother can’t take care of the daughter?
This is not a case where you have to report to the youth office. You can, if you’re very worried about it, if the little one is alone, she may not get it.
But I don’t understand the bank. She flies to the floor at most but not out of the balcony? This isn’t super dramatic for the first time, so does she learn.
Lg
So from the balcony. She leans practically over the grounds as well as your mother. So it is 2 floor but below it goes to the underground garage so there are already few good meters… I don’t want to report anything, make a problem, but it would be a tragedy. They sometimes grill the daughter makes it easy and I don’t really want to interfere in the education.
Then you should make them aware and keep watching.
Basically, it’s not bad if a child sits on the edge and ribbed. It is already 7 years old and if it falls on the ground, then it will certainly not do that anymore.
Or is your fear that it falls from the balcony? Is it that this might happen?
I think you should talk to your neighbor once that you’re worried about her daughter’s safety. Maybe she will change the bank so that there is no danger that the daughter will fall from the balcony (if this is your concern).
In principle, however, this is not a case to report to the Youth Office. They have quite different problems and here should always be looking for a personal conversation with parents.
The child leans over the grounds. We are talking about more than 20 meters in the depth of a paved stone.
I honestly don’t understand why you let your children play on the balcony. And if only under supervision. If the case of the child actually falls from the balcony, the mother can deal with all the authorities as she violates her supervisory duty. In your place, however, I would not be able to see and continue to fear. I would recommend you to talk to the mother, sometimes they are quite different than accepted. If that doesn’t help you turn on the Youth Office.
Look, I’d report the case.
No the balcony is not secured. Yes Sometimes the parents sit there and the bigger sister
but how life is like (also a child at the dining table, ” suddenly lies” lower table) so no one is so fast
The question would of course still be whether the balcony is secured or not? However, this should not be a playground for children. Do the children play alone or are the parents there? If all this is not true, I would definitely report it to the jA.
That was what my wife had done, but it was just a tired smile. We also have children and it’s just bad. That’s why we don’t let our children go there.
Talk to her. If nothing changes, talk to the office. This is life-threatening.
Talk to the mother about your observations. Perhaps she is not aware of the danger.
just talk to your neighbor