Kind lässt sich vom Papa nicht abwischen nach dem Toilettengang?
Meine Tochter mit 3 mittlerweile 4 Jahre streikt bei Nacht das ihr Papa sie nachts ins wc bringt oder popo abwischt und weint bis ich aufstehe und es erledige .
am tag gehts so einiger Maßen mal lässt sie ihn mal nicht
hat das jemand auch gehabt und woher könnte das kommen ?
zu ihr sie ist ein absolutes Mama Kind und meine Prinzessin 👑
Maybe it’s time your little princess learns to wipe off the popo alone? I certainly wasn’t a miracle child, but with almost 4 years I could do that.
Your daughter doesn’t like your husband (her father) doing this. There must be no other reason for this, besides the shameful feeling that may already be in use. Maybe your husband should just leave it, you should do it instead until she can control the toilet or clean herself alone.
That’s it!👍🏻
It should quickly learn to carry out the toilet cycle itself.
The fact that she is your “prinzessin” and your husband buys her everything she wants will soon get revenge.
There is only one “no” in her life.
I think it would be time at that age to learn to do it. At the age, I also think that the first shame is developing and from that it seems to her that she can’t do it herself and her dad has to do it.
Until then, maybe he’ll start to do it together, that he will continue to strengthen it or both of you alternately, but that both parents are always there to make the child realize you are both there for your daughter and do both. And if your daughter complains again when that’s what the dad does, you have to be strict and tell your daughter that he does it now, as long as she doesn’t do it and finish it.
Do everything together if you do anything, it is not good for the child if it prefers a parent, both for the child and the dad, who also experiences rejection, that is not nice
Vlt. should you train, show how she does it herself?
If you don’t, I’d like to respect her. Respecting physical boundaries is important.