Child 2 years always doing everything?
I had a bit of an argument with my partner today because I'm of the opinion that if she wants something and it's within reach, she can get it on her own. My partner, on the other hand, says that you can't/shouldn't teach a 2-year-old to be independent.
But she's capable of it, right? Why should I hold a grudge against her? 😅 It'll just stick in her head, and then she'll think she can't manage on her own without a parent. Am I wrong?
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What an antiquated lifeview! Self-employment begins at an early age, also as a toddler. Then, of course, only in a reasonable and appropriate framework. You can’t teach a toddler to eat. But the parents are not the servants and slaves of their children. A child can get his stuff very well. Provided of course, the things are not too heavy from weight and the child can already carry them. A little bit of effort over a few seconds would, of course, not hurt. Finally, the muscles must be able to develop normally.
Of course, at things where I know that she just can’t pack up I’m behind it or better told I’ll let her try it and if she needs help, she can come to me at any time and ask for help.
Voice you perfect ☺️ thanks
Yeah, that’s right!
& how does this look like a situation like after bathing where she had a stressful situation?
The Papa is now mad at me because he believes in such situations it is just not to blame her self-employment 😅
An age- and child-friendly self-employment is never wrong! Children must also be required to develop mentally and physically. Of course, always to a reasonable extent, but we agreed about it anyway.
The dad should stop packing his daughter in cotton. It’s wrong in terms of education. She will be a very pampered child and that will hurt you later in life! Life is hard, and she doesn’t always have her papa at her side, which puts her in cotton.
Show the dad our answers!
Thank you very much the same with the cotton wool I also said… I’ve been stupid.
I totally agree with you. My niece is 2 years old and helps my sister (i.e. her mother) for example when shopping, to put her the things in the shelves that are on her height in the car or to give her to the mother.
Children with 2 years of age are already able to be independent in terms of their own.
This is of course a nice thing if the little one already actively helps.
I also think it’s super important. It just doesn’t bring any points when they stick to the skirt until age
Right. This is also helpful for the development of the child early to show what it is already capable of and to implement this together with the child. And the children also usually have a lot of fun taking things on themselves
Everything your child can do herself should do it. otherwise she always remains immortal. Your partner wants to educate the child to be incompetent. And why should you follow her all that he does when he likes it so much? Don’t let anything talk to you,
Right from you. Thus the child learns self-employment and also the terms of things.
Thank you, I agree.
Only doof when the dad still does it.
Don’t worry. You’re making it different. This is no longer wild
Thank you. That gives me courage
Oh, shit. This has nothing to do with it. Actually, small children find it great when you give them something
I’m just afraid she’s mutating to the papa child because Dad always lets everything go through and with the evil mom she has to do everything herself 🙈