No money in account Parents found out?
Hello, I am an adult and I owe €300. My parents found out when I received a letter saying that a payment had not been made due to there being no money in my account, which my parents simply read. My problem now is that my parents want to see a bank statement for every month of the last year. But since I have made extremely unnecessary expenses, I don't want to show them these. On top of that, I lied to them and said that I didn't know why I was in the red, which means I've gotten myself into deeper trouble. What should I do now? I know lying is completely immoral, but this time there is no other way. Please only answer if you really help me.
Thank you very much .
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You have exactly two options:
Either you remain lying and insist that this is your business and you will get it under control and show your parents in a certain time frame (e.g. in X months) that the account is back balanced.
or
You tell the truth, why you are in the minus, what you thought about what you want to change in the future.
No matter what you choose – you will find a suitable path for you.
Actually, I want to be honest too, but my parents are really extremely rigorous and would totally freak out.
Whether you’re honest or not – it’s completely up to you. With both options you will show them that you will solve it again. It is important that you give them a solution – because Your parents are worried you’re getting deeper. Make it clear to them that you’ll get this back in touch, you’ve made solutions (Financial plan, Minijob or, or) and then it will.
You write yourself that you find the expenses unnecessary. This knowledge can be incorporated into your confession.
I would point out in the first part that you, as a full-year, do not have to account for all your expenses before your parents and this also belongs to privacy.
After that, you can put it open and mention that you see it yourself that the expenses were unnecessary and you would otherwise be in plus. Make sure you see it and learn it, etc.
Thus, in your entire conversation, you stab your right and show your parents that they make a mistake. Stay with the truth, and if you don’t mind…
Good luck!
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Aside from the human being Your parents do not read your post or request account statements when you are full-year.
But you have to rule this under you.
Tell them you’re all year round and it’s none of her business. If you don’t trust, show them the extracts.