Kann mein Bruder alt werden?
Also mein großer Bruder ist jetzt 19 und wiegt schon so viel, dass er ohne Hilfe nicht aufstehen kann geschweige denn etwas anderes machen. Außer schmerzen und knien und Füßen und manchmal atemproblemen hat er aber keine gesundheitlichen Probleme. Er nimmt aber wie fast alle In der Familie weiter zu. Kann er so theoretisch an die 50 werden?
After looking at your questions and answers, I really see black for you and your brother that you will survive the 30 years. He’s got 250kilo, he’s getting on, you got a BMI of 58…. I don’t want to figure it out.
When I see you like and do not eat fruit, but rather 3x a week at Mecces and only drink lemonades.
The reality is: if you continue to live as you have said, you two are going to hop soon. No matter if your parents find the big thing great….
Yes I also sometimes drink light products that are healthier and noodles or so instead of mecces
Light products are even worse. Better ne normal cola than ne Light Cola. Light doesn’t mean you take off. And healthy is fruit and vegetables. Noodles in themselves are not necessarily “healthy” Shouldn’t be too nem nutritionist…
Noodles are very counterproductive.
Bullshit. Noodles are pure carbohydrates and contain almost no vitamins.
Why are you healthy?
Why would he want to be old if he can’t take care of his health now?
Like someone else wrote here, you’re a fat family that doesn’t care about health. You will cost a lot of money in the course of your life, because of the complaints you have eaten. And you’re not getting old. 50 should be possible, but only with the help of drugs.
Well, because you’re fat, you’re not worth less…
I am not talking about your value as a human being, but about avoidable costs that would not arise to the community if you had your eating behavior under control.
You get avoidable (!) cardiovascular diseases, liver and kidney problems, needs wheelchairs and/or special care. There are plenty of medicines, aids, doctor visits and hospital stays. For example, if your brother has to go to the hospital, a crane truck will come instead of the rescue service alone.
Who pays that? All of us.
Oh, God, how can you be so degrading to people without knowing about obesity? This is a disease and usually has several causes, such as depression, social status, genes, etc. Patients usually can’t do anything for it.
Maximum undamaged 😂
Well, my brother and I have always been fat
You are not the victims of your eating habits, but the creators.
Of course, one can do something about it or could have done something early.
Yes, my brother and my father have nursing services and wheelchairs because my mother and I couldn’t do that, we’re not so fit, but they need that, too, you can make nix.
Nobody knows how old he gets. So we don’t know if your brother gets old. Unhealthy way of life is usually a reason to die earlier than expected. Is it meeting your brother? I don’t know. Instead of worrying about it, the family could help him take off by working together (!) on living healthier, walking together. If this is necessary for you, as you write, then you can tackle the problem together and then this may also extend your brother’s life. And “problems with the joints and breathability” means that he actually already has massive problems. Breathless threatens the heart, the brain, so many diseases can arise.
When I read it correctly, the family also increases how to help them
Ne looks bad
but not yours
I know
I also had a friend
The clearly too thick
Wanted to help him
That’s what he took.
And seriously insulted me
And continued to grow
I’ve distanced myself from it
Often people want to live unhealthy
And they do that until it is no longer possible
And then maybe change something
So do the best
Not many thoughts about it
Today
Take my former friend
Very hard humble with OP a lot of krams
Has broken his abbey
His training has broken down
And regret my help back then
Not accepted
I wish you and your family
All good
Weight problems are always difficult to bear
Understand
Don’t surprise me. If you do not understand obesity, you cannot help at all. Did you ever ask him if he wanted your help?
I didn’t shoot him anywhere
So no idea what you want from me
I also know what is obesity
And you need professional help
And you can’t do anything that can be deeply anchored in childhood, and and
So stop shooting against me
And leave me alone
I didn’t touch him
And let him rest right with it
When he was no longer willing to
Seriously leave me alone with such negative sentences
Without knowing me
That’s so unfair
Always this search for evil people are not all so evil and you are also not a detective who has to expose these must take care of your own stuff and say not that they have meant it only evil that is unfriendly and can’t even vote you know me personally? No, so just let it go.
Yes 🙂 also very nice:) and nothing forced up 🙂 even went swimming but at some point he did not manage it anymore and abandoned then of course I can no longer help myself if I wanted
I think it’s a pity that here is assumed to be a worse person, the other is pushing his help
I am exactly the opposite
I write my story here
But again and again people come and think that there are always evil people
I honestly said no shock
Is everything right?
I can only sign this
Thank you
I met Qi Gong at the day clinic. I wish I could say that I do this regularly. But I’m afraid that’s something that’s going on in everyday stress. But I always come back to it.
Stupid. People in self-help groups usually understand better than the therapists. I thought it could help with social phobia.
I don’t know if you’re doing a deep psychological therapy or behavioral therapy. I think both are sensible. The first to get to know each other better and the latter to regularly do things that prevent counterproductive behavior. Doing any silly things in the public is also a helpful way of confrontation. But depends on what kind of guy you are and how hard the phobia is.
Thank you very much
A self-help group I have already visited in my city there are no stupid
Still thanks for the nice tipp
Do you make Qi gong? Most people don’t know what this is
Oh, good improvement. I hope the therapy shows its effect. Can also recommend looking for a self-help group if this is appropriate for you. I’m actually a very self-confident person. But if I have a depressive episode, I’m more vulnerable.
No, morally, it doesn’t say anything about you. But you’re not superficial.
Just because I practice Qi gong
Doesn’t that say anything about me as moral people?
There are many who practice Qi gong or are Buddhist and yet rape women, etc.
complaining as peaceful means not that you are peaceful
Still water is very deep
Thank you for your consideration this is very nice
You are very reviewable
I am self depressed and have a social phobia and am in therapy
I know very exactly how hurtful words and also can be accepted to people
And yes you’re right tips to help
Sometimes you just want to be listened and not a tip
Sometimes such a good tip does not help
The human being is not stupid he knows how it goes and doesn’t need any tips he is just emotionally not in the long at certain times to change and because tips just don’t help anymore you’re right
Sometimes the mere understanding of someone’s problem or situation is the solution and not a tip
I see we are coming closer to each other, too, in many respects
Beautiful
No, I don’t like it when someone writes about me. But unfortunately, my experience is that many people cannot understand other people’s problems but want to “help” half-heartedly. You know people like that. Physical and psychological problems are very complex. And some think that with simple, stupid advice to find the great solutions.
Anyway, now I know better with you. If I had seen the Qi-Gong video on your profile before, I might have assumed quite different circumstances.
You must be more careful with such claims
People are made of cotton
I’ll tell you
Don’t you want me to write something about you?
Who knows what you might be a considerate person
Is it a shame?
Your goodness
I’m sorry, I’m not free from prejudice either.
Well, good. As you write, I believe you. Many people do not know what it means to be adipous at all. It’s a shame for your friend. But you couldn’t do a lot. If people don’t want to, then nothing will help.
Hi Nico, I know some who have become very old with more than 200 kg, I am 50 years old now and weigh about 190 kg and have long since been allowed to live after the doctors… And I’m still very good…. So don’t worry about your brother, even with extreme overweight you can get old and enjoy life. If his weight eventually becomes too much, he will certainly want to change some of his life, but if he is happy with his high weight – as I am – he should not force himself to something he does not like. Lust and love for his body are not limited to kilos or weight. Don’t let yourself be fooled as a thick family, today people love to find victims of discrimination and we are always found fast….
Greeting Tom
High overweight limits life expectancy. But more accurate one cannot say before. A tip: if he can’t stand up, just give him water to drink and tell him he has to get food himself.
Hihi, it’s up or down in 10 seconds. One advantage is the technology.
Hello, Nico!
It can, but with greatly reduced quality of life. And such overweight greatly reduces life expectancy
Surely there is something to change and that would have to run over the doctor
In the end, however, he has only one chance if he himself has the unconditional will and the diet is changed seriously.
Maybe you can exert a positive influence
Good day
Theoretically yes. But his death risk is much higher than the death risk of a healthy person.
Alex
I don’t think so. Because due to lack of movement, various diseases such as diabetes etc… I know how difficult it is to feed healthy, I myself am with my 75kg almost in the underweight area but have type 2 diabetes and can very hard separate me from FastFood. If it should be possible to get <25BMI, it can even be 100 years old. But he must realize it as early as possible, he is still as young
You could convince your parents that it is unnormally unhealthy and you should definitely lose weight together. You can also go to the doctor who will confirm this, can keep you under observation in time (so that you take a watch healthy and so) and give you tips or send to a nutritional advisor.
Easily eat healthy, eat less, drink healthy (best water), move etc, at your brother start very little and slowly…
No, he’s not getting old, he’s not gonna be 50 years old, you can forget about this life change.
You say he has no health problems? No, this hasn’t been like that for a long time, only the weight and the breathing shortage already makes him create. In addition, he will soon be ill with diabetes, and then his body begins to dissolve so slowly with living body, in the bacon folds it begins to gamble, water will accumulate and so on, that’s all very unsightly.
He’s sick, and he’s got to change his condition, otherwise the Sensenmann is coming soon.
And I give you the same good advice!
But how should we change that?
By DISZIPLIN! AND A HARD DIÄT.
And no bad food and much too much of it!
Healthy, it’s definitely not.
How old he gets can blos show the time.
If he continues, probably not even 30. He needs professional help.
With today’s medicine.. But it probably won’t be nice.
If he continues, the chances are very bad.
Not unlikely
he should go to the doctor
Yeah, I guess there’s only one surgery.
but he probably would have to lose weight for the stomach surgery before he dies in general anesthesia
Yeah, that can happen. And if he can’t even stand up, it’ll be difficult.
Hi!
I am just as much.I weighed about 300 kg and have this extreme lipoedema in the legs steps don’t go at all and go only a few steps with roller.I have to take 40 kg and then get a gastric tape when I can.
Why don’t you help him and work on all of you?
Can be that he gets old, thanks to today’s medicine, but whether that’s so worth living I doubt.
he will quickly get even more health problems than just joint pain and unfortunately such overweight people will not be as old
honor your care in all, but how would it be as an idea if you let your brother live as much as he wants?
Maybe, but it’s not gonna be a nice life.