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Canceling an appointment because of my period, how can I express myself?

Bykawaiikunt

Hello, I have a really stupid problem. I have a mandatory appointment at the employment office tomorrow, which I've been preparing for for a long time, but I can't go now because I got my period. (It's always irregular and uncontrollable in the first few days due to the amount of blood.) I can't get…

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Jojo2200
Jojo2200
9 months ago

Hello

I think you live a little bit in a myth.

It is a superstition that one is no longer a virgin when the hymen (the “Jungfernhäutchen”) is torn or injured.

Being a virgin is only a spiritual and not a physical condition.It is the name for a person who never had sex so never done anything with another person what this would call sex.

So to be no longer a virgin, you must have performed an intimate act with a sex of your choice that you would call sex. In the past, the penis has to be in the vagina so that it is considered to be sex and thus as defloration, but since we live in a world by also existing and performing homosexual or pansexual partnerships you meanwhile say that it is considered to be sex when viewed by the person and the partner as sex.

In some, the hymen was already damaged by sport or at other moments without the person having sex ever. People who already had vaginal intercourse can also have a completely intact and undamaged hymen. Do even with damaged or unexisting hymen born!

The hymen just got the worst nickname there was when you assumed that the hymen always tears and even only tears during sex, that’s not true. Even children can have a torn hymen even if they never had vaginal sex with someone.

So it’s normal that you get a tampon in, because the hymen can stretch and is not extremely tight. As I said, you can also get a whole penis in without the hymen tearing.

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I hope I could help you 🙃

Good luck 🍀

LG

Jojo

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Rosenrot180
Rosenrot180
9 months ago

It doesn’t tear so fast. Don’t worry. Everything should be intact.

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Skully87
Skully87
9 months ago
Reply to  Rosenrot180

The juvenile skin is very stretchy and does not tear so fast. But if you are unsure, you can make an appointment with the gynecologist, he can say 100% if it is still intact or not.

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LouPing
LouPing
9 months ago
Reply to  Skully87

The young lady does not provide any information about whether a woman is a virgin or not, when it finally comes in the heads.

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LouPing
LouPing
9 months ago
Reply to  Rosenrot180

Unbelievable that the ancient myth is still active in some minds – we live in the 21st century.

The juvenile skin itself is more myth than reality: There is no membrane that closes the vaginal entrance, as is assumed in numerous cultures. Rather, many women are a kind of mucous membrane that frames the opening of the vagina like a small wreath. This is why the juvenile skin is also called “vaginal corona”. “Hymen”, ancient Greek for “Häutchen”, is another synonym.

However, the shape varies. The juvenile skin is sometimes half moon or seven, or it is absent from birth completely. If it is, the thin mucous membrane fold can easily tear in during the first intercourse and bleed something, but it does not have to.

“Environment tests do not have a scientific or clinical basis,” said a spokesman of the World Health Organization (WHO) of the German Press Agency on request. “There is no investigation that can prove that a girl or a woman had sex – and the appearance of the maiden of girls or women cannot prove whether they had sexual intercourse or are sexually active or not.” The WHO has been calling for an end to “medical unnecessary and often painful, degrading and traumatic practice” for years.

[GRUNTS]

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Skully87
Skully87
9 months ago

Read my message again and then you see that I didn’t write anything like that.

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LouPing
LouPing
9 months ago

I am completely relaxed and relaxed, only it does not annoy enormously if certain religions and groups of people consistently adhere to a myth that was eventually put into the world – probably in the Middle Ages.

Millions of women around the world are thereby encroached and massively under pressure. Fragrant doctors who allegedly “restore” virginity earn a golden nose.

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Rosenrot180
Rosenrot180
9 months ago

Why the hat? Kindness hasn’t hurt anyone.

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Yodaa394
Yodaa394
9 months ago

Not necessarily it can tear at sport but without you notice it.

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