Is my mother an alcoholic?

First of all a little information: my mother separated from my father very early on and he sees me every Wednesday, sometimes on other days too. Yesterday I was with him the whole time and when I came back at around 8:30 in the evening my mother had already drunk 3 cans of beer and half a bottle of wine. She gets really annoying when she's drunk and shouts at me straight away when I tell her, "Mom, please stop" or "could you be sorry?" yesterday I didn't feel like it any more and wrote to her that she should stop drinking and that otherwise she would die. Then I told her that I didn't love her anymore anyway and well then she said that she would strike me out of her will if I carried on like that. And what she did yesterday is something I've been going through my whole life. I can understand why my father split up with her. Did I overreact yesterday? One day I woke up, lay in bed for about an hour, and then it was around 12 o'clock. I wanted to go to my mum because I was hungry. I saw two empty bottles of wine and a beer and her smell all the way to the bedroom door. During the course of the day she drank another 2 bottles of wine and 5 beers and she tried to strangle me when I told her to stop and that's not an isolated case. They drink a lot every day, usually a bottle of wine and a beer. I'm going to my grandma's in the next few days. I'm sure my mum has a problem. What should I do?

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Ille1811
2 years ago

Hello!

It’s nice to see your grandma. Alcoholism is a disease that also changes the being. That’s what you know about your mother’s crazy reactions.

Nacoa offers a free anonymous chat every Tuesday at 6 p.m. for children with an alcoholic parent. Why don’t you go over the morning? https://nacoa.de/projects/consultation offers-round-the-thema-kinder-aus-suchtfamilie

How is your grandmother dealing with your mother’s alcoholic illness? Show her the page http://www.Al-Anon.de

AshleighHoward
2 years ago

talk to your father about it. it can’t be that you live with an alcoholic under a dach and she’s responsible for you.

Luna0610
2 years ago

Yeah, I’m sorry. But you can’t help her. That she tried to strangle you, though, you should make an announcement. Can’t you go to your father?

Luna0610
2 years ago
Reply to  OnepieceLilli

Well, if your parents were still together, they would have sex. That’s what you’re looking at.

And you can’t stay with your grandma either?

Luna0610
2 years ago

Then please see that you’re coming out with your mother.