Is my mother an alcoholic?
First of all a little information: my mother separated from my father very early on and he sees me every Wednesday, sometimes on other days too. Yesterday I was with him the whole time and when I came back at around 8:30 in the evening my mother had already drunk 3 cans of beer and half a bottle of wine. She gets really annoying when she's drunk and shouts at me straight away when I tell her, "Mom, please stop" or "could you be sorry?" yesterday I didn't feel like it any more and wrote to her that she should stop drinking and that otherwise she would die. Then I told her that I didn't love her anymore anyway and well then she said that she would strike me out of her will if I carried on like that. And what she did yesterday is something I've been going through my whole life. I can understand why my father split up with her. Did I overreact yesterday? One day I woke up, lay in bed for about an hour, and then it was around 12 o'clock. I wanted to go to my mum because I was hungry. I saw two empty bottles of wine and a beer and her smell all the way to the bedroom door. During the course of the day she drank another 2 bottles of wine and 5 beers and she tried to strangle me when I told her to stop and that's not an isolated case. They drink a lot every day, usually a bottle of wine and a beer. I'm going to my grandma's in the next few days. I'm sure my mum has a problem. What should I do?
Hello!
It’s nice to see your grandma. Alcoholism is a disease that also changes the being. That’s what you know about your mother’s crazy reactions.
Nacoa offers a free anonymous chat every Tuesday at 6 p.m. for children with an alcoholic parent. Why don’t you go over the morning? https://nacoa.de/projects/consultation offers-round-the-thema-kinder-aus-suchtfamilie
How is your grandmother dealing with your mother’s alcoholic illness? Show her the page http://www.Al-Anon.de
talk to your father about it. it can’t be that you live with an alcoholic under a dach and she’s responsible for you.
Yeah, I’m sorry. But you can’t help her. That she tried to strangle you, though, you should make an announcement. Can’t you go to your father?
Nee net really has ne girlfriend she’s super nice but I don’t want to bother her with sex. And there I had to sleep on sofa because there is only one bedroom
Well, if your parents were still together, they would have sex. That’s what you’re looking at.
And you can’t stay with your grandma either?
Then please see that you’re coming out with your mother.
But I can go to my grandma and to my dad I could also have gotten hald sofa