Is it okay for me to think like this or are such thoughts a sign that I don't have a good heart?
I'm pretty annoyed and it's all getting too much for me. My grandma is seriously ill and is staying with us for two weeks. Since we have a small apartment, she has to sleep in my room and I'm sorry, but it's really pissing me off. I just want to be alone and have some peace and quiet, but instead I have to sit in the living room all day and sleep in the same room as my mum and dad… it feels so weird, I feel so confined and I constantly have a feeling of unease. Am I overreacting and being too selfish? I mean, she's an old woman and won't live much longer, and it hurts me too, having such negative thoughts. But I can't stop it from pissing me off.
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Hello soul music,
you’re in a conscience conflict. On the one hand, you see the severity of the situation and you are also very sorry for everything and on the other hand you just wish to return your own private retreat. Very comprehensible. Then also like a small child to sleep together with the parents in a room is not pleasant.
But the situation is not always the case, but only for two weeks. Even if these two weeks feel like a feeling eternity, that’s what’s going on. Have some patience, everything will be good again:)
Greetings!
Yes many thanks for these encouraging words (:
It is completely normal that you have such thoughts when you feel constricted and your personal needs are not met. It’s not a sign that you don’t have a good heart either. It is important that you respect yourself and use it for you to meet your needs. Maybe you can talk to your family and tell you your thoughts and feelings. Perhaps there is a solution where everyone is satisfied.
Yes many thanks (:
Try to understand. Your grandma will die soon and you can go back to your room. It’s “only” temporary
You’re right, thank you.
Work on your heart qualities!
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