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ulrich1919
1 year ago

You have to start a conversation with the brother. Don’t blow or whistle (otherwise comes the accusation of jealousy) but make it clear that you are berteit to make a step back, but still want your dignity not to be hurt.

It is also helpful to ask what you can contribute to a “normalization” of the relationship.

Sister and brother are not Otherbundes, but Verification“History”.

Rockige
1 year ago

Yes

That’s normal. At some point in life, relatives must learn to deal with the close family members also connect outside the family, enter into relationships that the partner gets an equal or sometimes higher emotional value.

This means that not only parents, but also siblings have to learn to deal with.

LilaInPink
1 year ago

Yeah, that’s normal. The person with whom one leads a serious relationship is usually the most important Üetson for one.

By the way, it is completely normal that siblings live a little apart in adulthood. Usually you find yourself closer to each other.

Schlaumy
1 year ago

You mean your brother’s friend is more important than his sister, so you, right? Yeah, that’s so normal. Girlfriend is girlfriend, sister is family. These are two pairs of shoes. Are you jealous? You’ll have a boyfriend sometime, too… so life is running…

Schlaumy
1 year ago
Reply to  Erjonaxx

How to treat a piece of dirt is not OK. You’re not a thing, you’re a human. And you can tell him that. If you’re to leave him alone, he’ll tell you politely.

Rennegent
1 year ago

Well, that’s a different relationship, friend and sister. But you have an advantage. You’ll always be the sister. That’s not so safe with the girlfriend.

medium723
1 year ago

Would make me think if not

Geisterstunde
1 year ago

Total normal

Goodnight
1 year ago

Sure!