Es ist ja klar, das Dinge wie “normale” Arztbesuche für das Kind, von den Eltern arrangiert und unterstützt werden sollten. Ob regelmäßig zur Überprüfung, oder bei Krankheit ist da Egal.
Aber wie sehr ihr das bei anderen Dingen, wie Hautarztbesuchen, oder beim Gynäkologen?
Wenn man z.b. mit 15-17 noch nie da war, hat man dann Raben-Eltern?
Was denkt ihr? Sollte sich ein Kind in dem Alter da selber drum kümmern?
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No, they’re not ravens. They would only be if they did not take care of the child and would introduce it to a doctor if it complained about health complaints.
Dermatologists and gynecologist visits are only available from a certain age, unless there is any noticeable evidence.
In this age you mentioned, a “child” notices itself whether something is wrong with or on his body and will tell the parents. At least that should be the case.
That is why I think it is important that the children be taken care of from small to the subject. So that it grows up with responsibility for your body and it becomes self-evident for it to take care of your health later.
No, they’re not ravens. It would be that the child would have worrying mammals or massive complaints in regulating bleeding etc.
I think it would be embarrassing for many young people to drag them to these and those investigations all the time.
It’s better if you realize something doesn’t seem good, then you’re asking and making the suggestion that it’s better to let that go by a specialist and that if you like to come with.
You only need a skin doctor if there is an occasion. This is not a regular doctor for precaution and review. If you don’t get old. Skin cancer screening is much later.
Gynecologist is something else. I think young people should go there. It is also necessary or recommended, however, only if young women want to become sexually active (would) and that can also be closec to 18. Year of life is only the case. Here too: as long as there are no discrepancies, it is not a drama. And many also have a very good relationship with the pediatrician and also discuss periodicities there and get the HPV vaccination there (for example, I also had to be a female physician).
I believe that one should educate his children to self-employment and young people should take care of health too slowly.
Of course, this is not the case
in a way, you have raven parents.
My mother’s coming with me around 18 and still doing all my appointments. Just because I’ve never learned it and I’m still getting lost. Besides, I don’t want to call hahah
Really? Then it will be time for you to learn some things. Otherwise you will end as a lifeless virgin.
unfortunately yes, but I am no more virgin. I’m already in treatment inform of a day clinic, but just helps me in the emotional area. It’s not true to me that a lousy individual dwelling where I learn such things. there the Youth Office can not do anything because it is not an acute hazard.
Hahahaha? Soo funny I don’t think that if children never want to become independent.
I like to show my humor when it comes to my psyche;)
I don’t have to, I already know.
Then think about the hindsight.
and you know how? Strangely, I’ve always been that way and I’ve been writing more often such answers.
I don’t think you’ve put humor here. Your laughter was more insecurity.
Medical visits are something that is not absolutely necessary. If everything’s okay, you have better things to do.
I don’t think that a 15-year-old must go to the gym. There is a difference in the case if it has legal complaints or contraception issues. Yeah, you should go with her and get back there in a tactical way.
Because the Gyn is concerned with the interface to detachment from the parents and the door to their own family. Here respect is said not to interfere in the daughter’s sexual life.
In doubt, I would simply ask her: on the one hand, if she has questions about the Gyn, on the other hand, whether she wants to go.
Like a case of personality. Maybe my husband would be less likely to go to the doctor when I’m getting appointments for him. Some people take care of their health, others less.
With 15, or at least 16, you can now go to the doctor on your own. It is not necessary that your parents blow sugar in your ass for life.
As a mother, you can take the daughter to the women’s doctor to see what’s going on and that’s not bad. Doctor and daughter get to know each other for a short time and if something should be done then daughters know what is done. If I found it ideal and I had done so.
Children can sit in the waiting room very early. Whether they always have to, parents decide best themselves – they know their child best.