ByLiene502
For some time now I have had the feeling that my parents are gossiping about me.
The other day they whispered and closed the door.
Then I listened and my stepfather told lies about me again and my mother believes him
What should I do to let my mother know that it's not true?
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is not “honorable”. Then open the door and tell your truth
Ask for an open and direct conversation. Your stepfather might try to keep a little out of it and run over your mother. Direct communication is always better.
It would have been even more sensible, you’re discussing it to third parties. Everyone explains how he perceived the situation and listens to the others without judging and subjugating “leighs”. That people perceive situations differently is completely normal! You then use the impressions of others to understand how your own behavior acts outwards. Then a “oh, that I had not meant or intended” is far closer than “the lying!”
So: “Family Conference”. Quiet and objective. negotiate a strategy for the future together. You’re a more or less random crowd of people. Work together in the team to make life easier for yourself and for each other. With such a co-operativity, one starts to demand it from others.
They’re talking, but in a quiet factual tone.
I’d be interested in what lies he’s telling…
In itself… no good models when he does that, right? Question is whether you really want to take this personally or just imagine the guy who happens to live there. And good.
For example, we were gone yesterday with the family and my mother had stayed home because she didn’t feel good, in the evening he told her that I had beaten my cousins and cousins
But I played with them quite normal. And if I had really beaten her, that would have been worse. I don’t think my aunt would talk to me anymore and my uncle.
And to imagine that he only lives here is hard because he always tells lying and my mother is mad
And that makes me sad
You have to talk to them and tell them that they tell lies about you and that you do not accept this and that you seek help if they don’t stop it.
And if they treat you badly after that because you told them the opinion I would get my help from an adult of your trust.
“even worse” and “normally played” do not fit together. In this respect, your stepfather’s “lust” sounds quite realistic.
These are adults, not children. They have a certain degree of responsibility for the kids. Sure, there are people who are like ultras etc. and make a fun of everything. The only thing I can imagine here is that he wants to drive a wedge between mother and child. The question remains the Why. If he were so on, that would be visible elsewhere. It’s an intriguing behavior that he shows.
In itself, it may have nothing to do with toys but in this particular case already. Parents have no freedom of fools.
in itself it has nothing to do with “toys”. Why does he do that or what does the stepfather have? Is he so in other situations that he causes stress?
Talk to her directly.
Okey
Are you talking about SB?
No
And if you let me