Is there a way to get a girl to visit you because of depression?
Hello, I am 20 years old, male and I am deeply depressed due to toxic environment.
I desperately need human contact, especially with a girl, otherwise I will die soon.
I think the most important thing I need to heal is for a girl my age to visit me with whom I can spend intimate time. I don't mean sex, but being close, listening to each other, and touching/cuddling, and the girl staying positive/supportive no matter how bad I feel. I think that's the only thing that can save me from death.
Does such a thing exist and is it somehow feasible?
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First of all, hello!
I think it's definitely feasible, but I think it's often difficult to find such people. Even if it's possible, the person shouldn't leave immediately after two months or so. Do you have any people around you with whom something like this could be possible, or do you hardly have any people around you? I know I couldn't really help you. Sorry about that. But good luck with your search and much success 😉
LG
Thanks for the answer. Unfortunately, I don't have any such people at the moment.
Try Tinder 🙂
But to your situation:
I can tell you 100% that you won't find fulfillment and happiness from outside. The solution always lies within yourself. You have to find a way to be content and happy with yourself.
If you were a puzzle, you wouldn't find the last missing piece in another person; that's not how it works. It would be an incredible disrespect for the other person if they had to "complete" you. Because who would complete them then?
As long as you cannot be happy with yourself, no other person will be happy with you either
I know I just need a start where I can get energy from so that I can find happiness within myself
The beginning is the realization that you have to work on yourself to be happy. Another person may be good for you in the short term, but that's not the path to a solution.
Why a girl?
Can't have a conversation with every person do you good
That's just the way it is; sometimes you need that energy and intimacy. I know that from my own experience. You're approaching it too head-first, probably because you're not familiar with the situation.
I've lived in shared apartments with only boys for the past few years. I need the opposite pole, I feel that deep inside.
You could ask escort agencies if they offer something like this.
But it should be clear that this is all an act.
Otherwise, there's still the classic approach: building contacts who genuinely care about you: friends, partners, family.
Yes, I basically want to act because I feel so bad and a realistic relationship wouldn't be possible.
I will research this with the escort
And what do you give her in return?
The only thing that can save you from death is therapy and your willingness to cooperate.
Money?
Do you want to get a prostitute?
That doesn't solve your problem
OK.
No, I didn't mean that, it would only make it worse
Try the escort service/prostitute.
And then you say you need someone to cuddle with. A loving woman.
If you have money, this should be possible without any problem.
Escort services do exist, yes. If you can afford them, your visitor will certainly be happy to come.
Make friends?
That's the problem: I can't do that right now because of my health. I'm close to dying if things continue like this. I can't live much longer. I've been living alone in my room for years, without going out or having any contact. It's only getting worse every day, and my mental and physical health is deteriorating massively.
Well, too bad for you then. Good luck.