Is that necessary?
My sister-in-law has been back home for two years now, and my mom still wants to pick up my nephew from kindergarten and go there when he's sick. But doesn't my dad have to be careful that he doesn't get sick? Because there are other children who could also be sick. I'm just worried about my dad, that he won't be able to continue with the therapy and will die.
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Your father should be a little cautious, but he can't isolate himself from everything. He should talk to his doctor and maybe do something to boost his immune system. My son and son-in-law both had cancer and lived at home with their young children during chemotherapy. My son even attended the birth of his second daughter during a break from chemotherapy.
He wants to watch but my mother doesn't
Necessary – no.
Desired – obviously yes and that by all directly involved
but he could infect my dad and diesel costs too
Your dad can calculate the risk and fuel costs are really not an argument.
I'm not allowed to disinfect my hands but he still coughs
because I'm afraid of that
because I was always a bad child there are enough people who like me
You can do it, too, if you're just a little more careful. Have your child wash their hands when they come in. If necessary, even disinfect them, and of course, everyone who comes home should do the same. Otherwise, keep a certain distance or make sure they don't lick anything. Don't share food or drinks. Even 3-year-olds have a certain understanding.
That's not your only problem. You're not driving the bus based on experiences dating back more than a decade.
Yes, you, as a 27-year-old woman, constantly try to compete with a three-year-old child out of jealousy because your parents no longer care for you the way you'd like. Sympathy is always an external assessment. You can't judge how you appear to me (or others).
He does it because he wants to live but you should be careful that he doesn't get sick
No, I'm not. What can I do about the fact that hardly any buses run? And I'm not unpleasant, and I'm not selfish either.
I think he's in therapy?
Doctors can only give advice. The decision always lies with the patient. Every patient has the right to refuse necessary treatment. There are many who opt against treatment and prefer a shorter, but more intense life. And that's human free will. And you, as a daughter, can approve or disapprove. But you can't influence it.
Yes, and that's what makes you so unlikable. Selfish, self-centered, and very jealous.
only the doctor can say that
should he not be because of cancer therapy
oh yes and that's what I demand
That he can assess his own risk and decide for himself whether he prefers to protect himself or receive visitors or take a middle path (receive visitors under certain hygiene requirements)…
They don't have to, and we've already clarified that in many of your previous questions.
what does calculating mean?
but they have to drive me around too
Excuse me? I'm sorry, I can't follow you.
Didn't you read it?
Yes, but due to a lack of punctuation and grammar, I still have no idea what you're trying to tell me.
Is it necessary for my mother to pick up my nephew even though my sister-in-law is at home and if he is sick, my mother still wants to go but I don't know if that's a good idea because my dad is undergoing cancer therapy and shouldn't get sick