My mother says I have too much Playmobil and Lego and I have to give some to my nephew or sell it. I wouldn't do anything with it anyway. Is she exaggerating?
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Her apartment – her decision how much of your greed she allows you to store in her apartment.
It’s free to put your stuff outside the apartment where.
If you don’t use it anymore and there are no collector pieces then it makes sense to sell or give them away. Even my 8-year-old daughter has to migrate her children’s room 2x a year. The toys come in boxes and I sell 2x a year on flea markets and a part I give away. So I do exactly what your mother asks of you. Sell or give away.
I still buy it
No
I’m not doing anything about it
Your money _ your decision. but it is also the apartment of your mother – so their decision what and how much toys comes into the house. She cannot forbid you to buy it – but she can forbid it to store the stuff in her apartment.
She could pack the stuff in a box and put it in front of the doorstep with the words: Look where you’re putting your stuff.
No I only earn 180 €
2.200 € rich in
Exactly and not enough income
but that can be changed if you want – it doesn’t matter to you (and you have no money enough)
I have no own apartment
in your own apartment, in an external warehouse
I can’t accommodate them elsewhere
I’m sure she can. What does that have to do with you paying her? She doesn’t throw them away but gives you the option to bring your stuff somewhere else
No she can’t I paid for the things
sure she can. she can’t throw her away, but she can put her in front of the apartment door and forbid her to bring her back in.
No she can’t because it’s my stuff
You won’t have a choice if your mother asks you. If you don’t, she’ll do it for you. And you’re sleeping with 27 with your mom and dad? I don’t say anything about it…
No I don’t get out of my sleep with my mother in bed
no it is the room of your parents – who are in the rental contract/is the apartment and therefore also all the rooms in it. They are kindly at present providing you 2 rooms for free – but if they say at once: 1 room is enough, we need the 2nd for something else – then that is also their good right. If you’d like to have 2 rooms, you’ll have to go where you have 2 rooms for yourself.
and how are you going to put your nephews on the door? You can only do that if it were your apartment – but it’s not.
If you would still do it, you would be put in front of me as the next one.
You’re pretending to belong to your apartment and like you’re letting your parents live in it – it’s the other way around!
It’s my room
then I would put my nephews on the door
My son is 27 and has kept allw Playmobil and Lego.
He can still decide later whether he sells it and keeps for his nephews and nieces or his own children.
I bought it again
I use it for me
and he puts it in your apartment and thus blocks the entire guest room so that your grandchildren cannot stay with you?
It is still my room and not a guest room
He doesn’t play with it anymore, it’s all nicely supplied and waited for a new bet when the first grandchild comes!
Because it’s your Playmobil and Lego, you should decide if it’s too much for you.
I don’t have space anymore
not if you live for free at 27 years in the house of the parents and block the guest room so that the grandchildren cannot stay there.
It’s still my room
It’s your stuff, so also your decision
But she means she always has to clean it
because you don’t help anything in the household – of course I don’t know about your learning disability. you forget how to use a vacuum cleaner every time
jain – lives with 27 at home, pays nothing and blocks a complete room that is not her room with the stuff.
No it’s my room
She was younger than me and she couldn’t sleep in her room because over it was the attic and the father hanged herself there 23 she was there
No I should have found to the one from the family doctor from someone else because the one who knows from earlier
and how old was the girlfriend and how many days did she sleep with the mother?
And that a psychologist doesn’t report okay – but 30? straight at the doctor’s lack you have to be a little annoying and also call several times and that with more doctors
my former girlfriend also slept with her mother when her father died
that does not report and nobody reacts to calls and emails
how many other 27-year-olds do you know who still sleep with mom in bed?
and surely you get an appointment – last with corresponding waiting time
no it is not
I don’t even get an appointment
it is safe enough – especially since normally a 27 year old does not sleep at home and thus does not have the option to sleep at Mom in bed
and if you can’t sleep because of this: See that you go to psychotherapy That can’t be a lasting state
No is not enough
But because I can’t sleep anymore
Okay, sorry, but 4 months are enough. Usually you don’t sleep with your mother in bed when a pet dies
Wrong 4 months
that’s almost 1 year dead, right?
Because of the death of my cat
what if it’s better if you’re 100, you can afford one?
Suppose you buy a cheap apartment for 100k
You can save €100 per month from your 180k. then you save 83 years you can buy the apartment. The stupid thing is that there will be another 20% purchase costs. Then you’ll be saving 100 years.
and then the problem with the running costs remains.
and if the apartment paid by the state is smaller – where is the problem? A condo will never go out with you and you will get a rental apartment.
and you don’t have to sleep with your mother in the same bed – you can also sleep in your Lego room. you’re old enough for it. or you give your LEgo room so that the nephews can sleep there. but you don’t want it all because your world is all about you…
Because that’s better, it’s mine
but only a certain size
No it does not make it true that they cannot sleep with us because I sleep with my mother in bed and I can put in my room what I want
why a condominium? Of course, this is not enough for that, but even if you can pay the condominium in cash – what do you pay the operating costs? They are also more than 180 €
A condominium does not pay you – but a rental
and whether it really doesn’t matter to them that I dare to despair. I’d be mocking if my adult daughter complains because I spend time with my grandchildren. Or your Lego room doesn’t want to get out and so I have to sleep with my grandchildren in a bed, for example.
No this is not enough for a condominium
they make nothing of you
I do not want
No, you don’t have to – you have enough money to pull out – that seems to say even the state.
It is your free choice to continue being a guest with your parents. And so you will have to judge them and not them according to you.
and if the money is gone quickly, it’s not very bad for you. With a disability you get money from the state and can finance your life. That’s what you think
I have to bear him every week only with my sister-in-law resting with the baby
because I only earn 180 € and the money is quickly gone
well, if she doesn’t do it every day, that should be good for you anyway? So why the complaints?
and if the state collects your saved money, it actually means that you have enough money to finance your life alone without help.
make my parents not every day
my parents do not mind that the aid does not get the state, then my savings money
if they want, they can do it every day. As long as it is all right for parents and grandparents and children, nothing speaks about it.
and it would not be clear to your parents – they will let you live at home at 27, even though you would certainly be entitled to aid with a handicap, and then you could also withdraw.
But not every day that my parents wouldn’t do
Because I don’t like him and get headaches from his cry
it is only if the grandparents do not want – and this is apparently not the case.
You don’t want it as an aunt, but that’s not relevant in this case. You don’t have to watch your nephews
No they’re pushing him off on weekends too
they care about them – they have organized an external care and that can be a kindergarten, but also the grandma.
Call the Youth Office and inform that my brother and his wife do not take care of themselves properly
you’ll see what you’re doing when you really should get that far
I’m not getting out or I’m cutting off
then you’ll have to separate a few things when it comes to this. or take off. You don’t have more options, even if you’re sure to say something else
Renting a warehouse is too expensive
Sure you can, you just don’t want to. You rent a warehouse where you drive 1x a week to go and bring the things you don’t need for your videos there and take the ones you need for the videos.
No I can’t do anything I need for my Youtube channel