My father used to beat me, and I was very afraid of him. He also didn't like me because he didn't want to have a mentally ill child, so he was always angry with me. And sometimes, when I watch TV, I imagine that's my father. Someone who loves me and with whom I feel safe and comfortable.
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Loading...Yearbooks were handed out at school today, and they had €5 too much. Then he told a friend to take it for free. Then I said I counted it, even though I didn't have it. I feel bad about it. It's only €5, but yeah.
Good morning. For me, it's a pretty serious issue: difficulty falling asleep because of thoughts. I wanted to ask around. I don't know who to turn to about this. I have the same problem every night. I'm lying in bed, and then it starts. I think about all sorts of things: am I still breathing…
I sometimes have crazy, perverted fantasies. Am I still normal or not?
The fact that death comes at some point after birth, how many people are unfortunately being killed (it's really bad right now, there's something in the news every day), how people suddenly disappear without a trace… that's really disturbing. What do you think about that? Is it best not to think about it at all?
I love my mother more than anything. She raised me alone, along with my grandparents, because my parents separated very early on. I'm almost 24 now and I can no longer cope with the way you are "raising" me. I lack the freedom I need, I'm always accountable, I'm often criticized instead of being offered…
This is completely normal because your father has not really fulfilled the affection and both psychological and physiological care of your needs (being of love, cuddles,…). That’s why you basically had a lack. In people who have only grown up with a parent, the search for a father or mother figure is also a common phenomenon. In addition, your desire for a father figure that shows love and which you may love has been reinforced by the “intact” families of your fellow human beings (classmates, friends, fellow students, etc.).
The education as well as the attachment to the father will affect every girl or young in the future.
What you’re writing is a typical behavior.
Of short-term father complexes.
If your complex spreads as far as you count your partner as a father figure or Sexual fantasies get it is advisable to seek a therapy every problem is almost always triggered in childhood.
If you’re looking for a partner or you should look at him taking care of one, he can’t replace the father figure.
Just like the daddy-kink it is advised to speak openly about it and make the reason of the demand to locate.
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No. you deserve a good father figure and maybe there’s someone in your life who takes this role in part
Less strange than you think and absolutely understandable.