I was beaten because I didn't want to go to school?
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I didn't want to go to school today because I was really tired and had a really bad headache. My mom yelled at me the whole time and hit me. Then she called my dad and said I didn't want to go to school and that she didn't know what to do anymore. I just want to do better, but she doesn't want to; we have to go to a psychologist. My mom then told me she's going to put me with another family, which I don't believe, of course. Besides, this is only the second time I've been absent. She also says that because I didn't go to school, I now have to go to a school for idiots (a secondary school).
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That doesn’t sound good what you’re writing. To your help, an article in the SZ:
In Germany, since 2000 it has been legally forbidden to beat children, Civil Code § 1631, paragraph 2: »Children have a right to non-violent education. Physical punishment, mental injuries and other degrading measures are inadmissible.« By the way, this also applies to everything that was formerly called “hand slipping out”, that is to say also to earfeits or a so-called claw. The youth offices are dependent on the fact that people from the surroundings of the children who might be subjected to something report. This is the only way they can work. Every message is taken seriously. Not everyone is, of course, penalizing or consequent, which always depends on the situation in question, but it is in any case correct to act in doubt in the sense of the child. Consultancy offices or youth offices are the right places for the notification, in Munich it is the social-bourgeois house responsible for the place of residence of the child (outside the opening hours the police). A message can be made personally, in writing, by telephone, by fax or e-mail. The reporting person may remain anonymous. For reasons of data protection, it will not be informed as to how the matter continues.
Print and put your mother on the table as a warning and forbid her to do that again.
There will be reasons for that.
General:
If she says ‘no’, it is called ‘no’. If you would accept that, it would certainly not be as escalated. There must have been something that has come so far.
That’s what I see.
But I don’t have to be a psychologist if I wasn’t in school.
Without the whole story from the sight of your mother You can’t say anything. The “Your version” is clear…
Can it be that you are tired in the morning and have headaches because you get too little sleep? Evtl. Go to bed late in the evening and then hang around on your phone or tablet for half night? You can’t go well in the long run, you can see it yourself. Please don’t let this behavior be insulted because it is also noticeable in your school achievements. With 13 years you are still in development, your body still needs a certain amount of sleep, rest and rest, otherwise it will swing over short or long. First signs already.
My aunt has told her children if they didn’t want to get up in the morning: whoever is not tired in the evening can get up early in the morning. There was no pardon, and if that really didn’t work it was refurbished with some cold water.
Are you expecting your mother to see your “slaughter” without action? Please note that you need to change your sleep rhythm, then you have no more problems.
In your case, I would go to Carita’s family consultancy and let me advise. After my guess, a good psychologist can only tell your mother to support you more. Maybe she used to shiny like that.
Now we need the variant of your mother!
Did she really hit you or was it just a light bang to wake you up?
seems to be a real problem!
You can’t be beaten at all, no matter what dispute you have. Your mother has overreacted and hasn’t been under control. And their threats do nothing. She seems really overwhelmed.
I think the place is somewhere else, so first away from your family is a good idea from your mother. If you are going to the youth office, you may first get a family help.
It can’t be that bad with your headache if you’re on the go for GF now.
Also, you obviously prevailed and stayed at home. This circumstance, in turn, makes the suspicion that you freely invented the story with the slums…
I didn’t
Go to school alone for that and that.
My mother can’t even say a normal German sentence
It’s called Whataboutism. You’re distracting from you and now you’re pointing to others.
What does that have to do with you? – Eben, nothing.
This is called bullying