I "refuse" school?
Heyy.
I had to repeat a school year this year and since then I seem to have been doing so poorly that I'm completely refusing to go to class.
Which, to be honest, I can't understand. I'm always present, I have my homework, and I usually present it. I also check in regularly, even if I have to force myself to.
I've always been extremely afraid of presenting things in class, and I don't know why.
Well, I report a lot in each lesson, considering my standards.
My teachers don't see it that way.
Despite good, really good, written grades (2-/+) and acceptable oral participation, I had a meeting with my teacher before the holidays where he explained to my parents that I was refusing to attend class.
I've reflected on it since then, and I honestly don't understand. Am I simply unrepentant?
It’s not a denial of teaching. That would be, if you didn’t do anything except to be present at all, so that name is completely different.
Probably your teacher doesn’t see you reporting so often or doesn’t notice you. 1 Teacher must inform about 50 pupils and be able to report their impressions to their parents. It can’t be a good idea. You can quickly forget or overlook a message.
So don’t make a head like that. You go with me and get over regularly. That’s great. A 2 is a super note. There’s nothing to say
I find the evaluation of teachers very exaggerated. Because if the grades fit as much as possible, you can’t talk about teaching refusal. Just as if you’re always present and don’t disturb the lessons. The fact that you show a very clear active participation in teaching is naturally expandable, but I find the refusal to teach excessively.
But the accusation is in the room and you have to deal with it now. Go back to the teacher after the holidays and talk to him about what your perception is and ask where you look. Ask him what he wants from you.
I used to have about the same situation in school. I was a good written student, I only reported little, unlike the others. Also I was afraid to report..
Most teachers then saw it as a refusal to work. Don’t worry about it. According to my experience as a shy person, many teachers take this as a refusal because they do not understand why they do not report. Or they compare you with fellow students, which naturally makes you very bad D:
I would speak to your parents and explain all this from your point of view and hope that they believe in your view 🙂 Because sometimes parents prefer to believe the students!
I’ve just let this stop at some point, usually can’t say much about teachers if they’re already in work refusal.
My parents love, really love my class teacher.
I had already tried to explain during the conversation with him what only ended up in that I was crying out because he always contradicted me, and almost didn’t want to talk out.
I can’t change it now, probably the school has to change anyway.
but thank you for your words, feel me a little more:)
That’s what I understand, it was the same. It’s important that you don’t doubt your performance! Teachers can be doof and use their position. Most are lost anyway, they think pupils who do not report are not good enough 🙂 All the best
It is difficult to say why there is such a different perception.
Of course, teachers like to be prejudicial and single-tracked.Just look again at your sheer notes.And maybe you talk again with other teachers.Maybe it will explain.
My experience (min 15 years ago) is that there are quite differences between the gymnasiums.I was able to get to know a very elitist and general schools that have also taken more mediocre pupils.Maybe it is.
There are many teachers who simply can’t suffer and try to make life hard. If you really do as you write, that seems to me to be a case of teachers
I don’t understand. If the oral services
“acceptable” in which then the refusal is manifested
of teaching? What note do you have in the mortal?