Ich habe nichts im Leben schlimm?
Hallo,
Ich weiss nicht, wie ich diese Frage stellen soll.
Als Erstes möchte ich euch sagen ich habe einen schlechten Vater, und er hat mich seit Kind nie unterstützt und hatte nur von mir erwartet.
Alle anderen nehme ich mal an, die haben alle eine Ferienwohnung, genug Geld und so. Bei mir ist es das Gegenteil.
Nun bin ich jetzt 18 und möchte all dies alleine lösen, da mein Vater mich nie etwas beigebracht und unterstützt hat.
Hat mein Vater wirklich Recht, dass ich das alles alleine machen muss?
Ich meine, als ich Kind war, sagte er immer zu mir: „geh arbeiten, wenn du gross bist, und kaufe dir ein eigenes Haus, Auto, Handy…“
Also er hat mir nie etwas geschenkt. Er erwartet nur von mir, dass ich das alles selber machen muss.
Wie gesagt, ich bin jetzt 18 und mache dies alles jetzt alleine.
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he has raised you, dressed, nourished you – so he has probably supported you with half ability. you were in school. So do something out of you. Look for a training if not done yet and go to work. if you want something: handy, car, apartment then get it – this is not the task of your parents.
No, he didn’t do all that, he just told me to work myself and finance everything and that as a child.
Sure, if you’re grown up, it’s actually your job to take care of all this.
A holiday apartment hasn’t got everyone, even if you have a lot of money. I’m glad you got your life on the chain.
My best friend was very similar. Her father disappeared, there she was 5 or something. She had really nothing at times, and then she developed a certain degree of luxury in the meantime.
It’s so natural at adult age.
But my father didn’t treat me well as a child. He never gave me anything and supported me. He expected everything from me, and that as a child.
it is not his task to give you something
That’s bad, but now you can’t change anything
You have a father for what.
I’ll tell you
Yes.. later, if your parents are dead, no one will help you.
But when I was a kid, he never taught me anything. He said I should grow up and finance everything myself.
I mean, I don’t want anyone like that.
He’s really not that good.
And no, he doesn’t say that respectful with beauty.
My father was so similar.. he always wanted to press himself before his responsibilities and did it well for 2 1/2 decades, but today I left him, so that he left me all the years. You will make it without him
I’m alone, but I don’t mean you’re supposed to put the sand in your head and just look at the other’s fingers.
Look at your fingers. What can you do NOW?
Yeah, like all the other adult people do.