Ich habe ein großes Problem. ?
Also erstmal ich bin gestern 15 geworden und bin Autist.
Ich habe seit paar Monaten Probleme damit rücksicht auf meine Mitmenschen zunehmen, ich gib häufig einen sche*ß auf die Gefühle meiner Mitmenschen, am meisten meine Schwester. Ich habe auf jedenfall Autistische züge, hab ein Problem damit mich zurück zuhalten, Ich checke meistens nicht, dass ich der jennige bin der der Schuldige ist und mein größtes problem ist halt, dass ich nie auf meine Schwester höre und einen F*CK darauf gebe, was sie zu mir sagt (Sie ist Jünger als ich) und dass ich sie nicht ausreden lasse und sie immer anmotze und alles. Ich zeige immer als erstes kein mitgefühl, aber später wie jetzt gerade fühle ich mich deshalb immer echt beschissen und hab ein Schlechtes Gewissen. Ich arbeite momentan an mir und versuche alles, habt ihr irgendwelche Tipps wie ich es schneller besser machen kann, denn meine Schwester fängt langsam an mich zu hassen und ich möchte das nicht, weil ich sie trotzdem Lieb hab, ich habe halt nur ein Problem damit, dass zu zeigen.
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My tip would be to listen to your autism (if such was diagnosed at all, later you speak only of autistic traits) as an excuse to use in the sense “can’t be anything for it.” This is only a convenient way for me to not have to work on the own characteristic weaknesses (which each of us has).
You know exactly what you’re doing wrong, that you don’t let your sister talk, you’re constantly touching her, etc., all this is completely aware. To know exactly what you do wrong, but still to do it – for that, autism is not an excuse.
I have autistic moves, but I’m usually guilty of it. the Autist trains only make sure that I don’t check that I’m the one who’s in charge.
I’ve got autism, but I’m still guilty of my kind of self, my autism makes sure I don’t check it directly that I make mistakes, you know? It’s my way and my decision what I’m saying, but I’m so full of emotions in such disputes that I’m just you know.
Besides, it’s hard for me to hold back as a big brother or not to come over in a vulnerable way.
So you are No Autist or how can I understand? If you know what you’re doing wrong, you can do it better. No matter if Autist or not.
have some problems with it. I used to be a lot worse.
An info I’m not a fool.
I’m not going to do it with Purer.
I’m an autist.
Is there a qualified diagnosis or is it a self-conception?
“Autistic trains” are not an autism in the sense of common diagnostic works.
There are also personality disorders that can develop in childhood and youth with similar characteristics. A corresponding parent-child dynamic is usually based on this.
I have autism, was diagnosed 7 or 8 years ago
My parents and sister did nothing to blame, they even helped me through a complete development, you don’t want to know how I used to be. 10 times worse.
My father is autist.
In the presence of autism, there are also appropriate therapy offers in which such things as behavior can be brought to the desired and often expected level and trained. Likewise, it is possible to address how typical meltdowns can often be used in autism. Especially in the family.
I’m already in therapy, but I don’t have the chances about it right now. Shortly after I wrote this ad, I went to therapy and talked about it because it was possible, or because I just forgot to say.
Maybe every time you talk to your sister, you should think about how you’d feel if someone tells you exactly what you want to tell her now.
Your sister is a person with feelings, no thing, no stranger…
Pulse control is something you can learn.