I think my mother hates me?
Hello,
Today was by far the worst day of my life
I had exams at school and got bad grades in those exams. I lied to my parents about it and as punishment I'm not allowed to use my cell phone until the summer holidays (only under rare exceptions).
I just have to study all day and my mother said I should do the following tasks. Since I was having difficulties, I told my mother that I didn't think studying would help and that I didn't know how to do the work. She hit me hard and insulted me several times.
She insulted me really harshly and I yelled at her (very loudly) to shut her mouth and I got hit again. I just screamed in pain and yelled at her several times. She left and said I should never call her mother again and went to her room crying. That happened today and actually we always make up in the evening but now I'm afraid she hates me because she wanted to throw me out.
I don't care about spelling and I need help! Even if she doesn't hate me, I don't feel the love anymore and I'm about to end my life because my life would be nothing without my mother.
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Your mother seems to have a lot of problems with herself:
She beats, she cries, she’s not under control. She seems emotionally overwhelmed. You don’t even have to be the reason.
She seems overwhelmed with you.
You or you should try to get help from outside before such a situation continues to escalate.
No, your mother doesn’t hate you. She’s just very hurt because you wrote her up and insulted her.
And she’s worried about you, so your parents want you to only learn to make your notes better or to make your exams.
Often adults or people generally react with rigour and sometimes also with violence or bruise, because they feel helpless or because they are afraid.
If your parents were strong, they would deal differently with the situation.
So, go to your mother, say excuse for crying and insulting and ask if you can talk about your problems at school.
Don’t say you didn’t want to do the tasks because you didn’t understand them. Maybe you have ideas to ask who you can explain the tasks. Maybe it could be a friend or maybe a remedial force would be very good. There are also students help students…
You are all with the situation bad exam, bad grades etc. helpless and overwhelmed. So it comes to screaming. But this scream is counterproductive. It’s insecuring you more. Therefore try to stay calm, only so you can solve problems.
Good luck, and your mother loves you and worries.
Oh, I’m really sorry what you got for a mother. She beats you in your place, I’d inform the police no matter how old you are calling the police. For example, if you lied to grades or to them, and they also pulled off your phone because of notes, that’s not a logic. My brother used to have bad grades but my parents never took his cell phone, and he didn’t give it home arrest but his phone was with him. If she does it again or if you have blue spots, you can show the police. Then they think you’ll have your mother to watch the police because I’d never want a mother like that. My parents have never beaten me no matter what I did my parents have never beaten me and they love me if a mother really loves his child then she should never beat them.
If you love her so much and need it, then why does it come to such situations.
Just as it looks, you’re just throwing hatred.
He’s just part of the problem and probably not even half.
Yes ’ asked a question about the escalation that was blocked because I want to ask this question again
you should learn to keep your mouth and do what you’re told. if you don’t know how to start learning books.
Excuse me and make sure you don’t have to repeat this year.
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