Mein kleiner Bruder denkt wirklich er wäre stärker als ich und das ich Angst habe gegen ihn zu hauen. Ich gehe zum Kickboxen und habe viel mehr Kraft und Erfahrungen. Nur schlage ich nicht weil ich sonst immer den Ärger kriege weil meine Mutter zu b… ist.
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A successful fight is not carried out with fists.
Little brothers are sometimes annoying, stupid, annoying and mean. But ask yourself what might really be behind it.
Little brothers secretly touch their great brothers. For him you will be the greatest. You can do a lot more and you can probably do a lot more than him and he will certainly know that you are the stronger. Maybe there’s only a hidden call behind the “to measure to you” for your attention and brotherly recognition.
Despite all trouble in everyday life, he remains your brother. Always keep that in mind.
Maybe, but he just doesn’t understand. I could almost make anyone stupid and stupid (not arrogant, purely physical), but they all think I can’t? I mean, I’m almost a professional boxer and everyone has no respect? But I deliberately do not use this power and then it means again I’m afraid. And then I run out right because I can’t bear that stupidity.
Sorry for my choice.
Oh! That’s the point.
I think you’re confused with basic things. So you demand respect because you are theoretically able to beat all green and blue? This is not really respectable. And this proves you your social environment every day.
This ability should not play any role in everyday life! Of course, it’s a good feeling that you know that, but you can’t measure the behavior of your environment. Don’t you confuse “respect” with bare fear? You really want that? That people take care of you, make up and avoid you? Then you would be quite lonely.
I think you’re doing everything right. You don’t let your skills be noticed. People have fun with you, sometimes pimp and make jokes with you and sometimes also about you. Why don’t you pick it up? It doesn’t seem to be very serious.
And if you want to be respected, you have to offer much more.
You can do this through real friendly deeds, helpfulness, goodness, forgiveness and greatness. Through diligence, perseverance, toughness and sense of responsibility. Very good school notes and that you do something from you. That creates real respect.
I could imagine that you are already on the right path, only your pride will distort you something the view of things;-).
Why do you feel respected when your strength is acknowledged? Let them think who itches… You know it’s not like that. You had nothing to prove to them.
We all live in the same household, but it’s not because he thinks that I’m afraid, but what’s wrong because I could beat him loosely, I’d get trouble from my mother.
May I ask if your father lives in the same household?
My brother usually thinks I’m afraid of him.
But who’s trying to fool you? Just wild people or buddies? or just your brother?
I’m trying to hide it, but at some point I just can’t do it anymore and then it just happens
I don’t know, I’m actually trying to get stress out of my way and don’t get into the fight, but I’m so nervous about the opposite of me he thinks he’s superior to me. And then so provocative sayings and insults bring me to boil.
But if you let yourself go and sleep, then you feel like you have to claim. I don’t know what your private life looks like, but I feel you have to put your priorities differently… How do you always get into the situation that others provoke you like that? Probably letting you provoke quite well and your counterpart has fun getting you on the palm, but they don’t expect you to be able to master and cross the border…
Doesn’t one learn as a martial athlete how to avoid conflicts? Why do you even let it happen?
Thanks for the helpful answer, maybe my answer to the other comment will explain my view. ;
It really has nothing to do with the power, but if it comes to the dispute, he thinks he’s better than me and that I’d be afraid to fight him. They say the smarter one gives what I’m trying to do. However, this provocative way does not leave me alone. And if I’m gonna get some extras, I’m the A…hole. I also try to stay calm, but at some point it just boils over and I beat him softly towards me. I don’t have any aggresion problems or something, I’m always calm, but especially in such actions, this stubbornness/dumbness of me is annoying, and he thinks he could easily defeat me. Do you understand what I mean? I don’t always want to prove myself or I can, I don’t care about it because I know what I can and what I can’t.