I am pregnant at 13 and am desperate, what should I do?
Hello,
i am 13 years old and I am pregnant.I have had 2 tests and there are no doubts.what should I do now? if my parents hear this they will kill me.I am really scared.I live near Holland and I have heard that you can have an abortion at home for 300 euros.and nobody knows.should I do it or not? it was my first time and now I am pregnant.but then I have to go away from home for 3 days,I have the money.but what should I tell my parents? I really don’t know what to do anymore.
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No, you’re not going to do that, because if you want to do an abortion, you’re going to pro familia, there’s no problem at all and it’s still being funded.
However, you should know that in such emergencies, parents can often react quite rationally and often even offer help to raise such a child with greatness, because who wants his own child to rub off his child.
If there is any thought in you to get the child, although you are still a child, then get in touch here .
In such cases, there are also mothers and child homes that would take you up if your parents would react inhumanly.
There you can expect the child in peace, get the child and also live there afterwards, it will also help you to start your life.
Depel the child because you think you’d be alone might not be a good solution for you in the long term.
I took off a child myself and although I was 20 years old at that time, I know today that it was wrong.
So please don’t do anything you don’t really want.
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If your story is true (I have my doubts):
Go straight to a consultancy office (e.g. Pro Familia). They’ll talk to you and help you with your parents. Maybe you have really good reasons for not knowing anything.
If you really want to drive off, then you don’t need to drive to Holland, this is also done in Germany, the cost will certainly be the health insurance in your case.
That with the woman in Holland, I don’t think so. In Holland there are excellent specialized clinics for abortions, because nobody needs to go to any “woman” to secretly drive away.
hallo claudia I advise you to talk to the elders anyway why you have not been prevented were better you have been the morning nausea and hot starving on things that otherwise doesn’t like talking to your mama okay and go to the woman doctor okay what you do depends on how far you have to know since when you have been happy it goes with the pills after that only that there is okay with the woman
That’s a pretty mess you’re writing.
Pill after that: this works only until 72 hours after the GV (until 5 days after that with EllaOne). It is clearly too late for her to make a positive test twice.
Abortion pill (medicamental abortion): this goes until 7 weeks after conception.
With the suction method and within the legal period goes up to 12 weeks after conception.
You can’t go into the hands of this woman.
Pregnancies that are not carried out by doctors can become life-threatening.
Every year women die from the consequences of misfortune, illegal abortions.
You’re so young, don’t let you destroy your future.
I’m sure your parents will be worried about you first, rather than being angry.
Let yourself be advised here in Germany about any possibility you have now and before you should also go to a female doctor who confirms pregnancy.
During the consultation, you can still consider how to get it close to your parents. For example, you can also inform them about your misery in the consultancy office.
Just don’t put your head in the sand, there will be a solution, even for you!
I wish you all the best!
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hi claudiababy,
that’s hard for a 13-year-old…
Don’t do any kind of abortion with anyone, something should be done by a specialist because there’s something going wrong.
it may be so hard for you, but the best way is to talk to your parents. I can also very well understand what’s going on in you, but here you have to jump over your own shadow.
Parents are parents, they should always be behind you, no matter what happens. evtl has experienced or expelled your mum.
I wish you viiiel mut and all good for the future!
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Hello,
the woman of whom you speak is called angelic.make this bloss not.Please contact a woman doctor for examination and advice bez. a demolition.he has no obligation and will not inform your elders either.If it is really so bad with your elders, turn to the jugendamt.This will take you into need and conduct a conversation with your elders.Only go for God’s sake not to this woman.
Actually, it’s always supposed to be a mistake.
But since you’re 13 years old.
Tell your parents the truth!
Sure they’ll be mad, but what are they gonna do? Ignore you? It’s still your parents. The only thing they can do is let the abortion pay you the same and tell you again:D
I’d go to that woman for GAR NO FALL! Go to the doctor with your parents!
Or take a girlfriend first and let the women’s doctor advise you!
so tell your elder : Mommy may I stay with my friend 3 days we will make her ne party and we wolen different things these days make me happy please
that I wouldn’t do cih would go to my mother with anxiety and say mm… mama ? so that was now out of sight .. and mmm… not extra and I am pregnant I also want to let it go ( cih it nit want aba du ) you can sign this ..
I know both is stupid aba more I can really help you have the choice scheating oda scheating xDD
Get to your deed!
Tell your parents and fix it together – you think I’ve already
too much on your own.
Alcohol and party should be left if you don’t get it together :/
Good luck confessing.
HI I don’t know if you’ve decided for the child but I wouldn’t drive off very good type please write back if you want to decide and thank you
Thank you for your advice, I have enough courage to confess to my parents.
Many thanks.I now go to the living room and tell my parents.MfG Claudia