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I'd like to move back to my university town because commuting six hours a day is no longer sustainable for me in the long run. It wouldn't be a problem on the housing market, but my father isn't happy about it, as he thinks I only want to move out so I can have sex with my boyfriend. I would need financial help for the initial period, and afterward, I would work.
How can I convince him to move out?
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Did you already apply for BAföG?
If not: repeat immediately! Then you will see if you are entitled to BAföG. If you are, this is not a problem in general: with the extract, you then put the amendment. BAföG plus child money (which your father must then pass on to you if he does not pay any maintenance in at least the height of the child’s money) then have to go to life.
Otherwise, 6 hours are much too much to commute and since you do not study on site, you are also entitled to your own apartment at the study site. With this, your parents are also obliged to stay for a bar when BAföG should be rejected. Even if BAföG is rejected, it does not mean that they would actually be efficient according to BGB. If you refuse the maintenance, you will make an application for advancement at the BAföG office.
You don’t have to convince him! You are all year round and can therefore go where you want and in your case there is also a reason for the excerpt, so that he can’t refer you to Kost and Logis!
He shouldn’t give you that what he did in his young years…
… and if it was o.k., it can’t be wrong today. 😉
It is also about my firm friend, with whom he implies this :/
Thank you.
And… maybe he was active without a “solid” girlfriend (more than).
How old are you?
Good idea! This is also the time I lose, which I could use productively in my university city
Ask him if he drives you to university every day and picks you up to shorten these times.
If he does not want to understand, I would not be able to stay here for a second, because the mentality is the same as the Stone Age 😀
All year round. Also sexually you can do with you what you want and do not have to ask your father for permission.
… and having intercourse is enough, for example, in the summer a beautiful meadow, no matter where.
21, it is 22 🙂
Your friend is in the distant city. The journey times are far too long for daily commuting.
Would be 3/4 hour drive to him. But we can’t do anything for him to go to university there and I’m “next” especially since we’re before studying
did not know and met us in the course of our studies
Are you full-year? Then your father has nothing to report, just go. For financial support, you can contact the Jobcenter and apply for citizenship.
I’m studying how to apply for civic money?
Because the study is not a final criterion for this.
No, she can’t.
You can be guessed.
She studied and is entitled to maintenance and possibly. BAFÖG, the job center is out there. So why should she sprinkle time there? Even the FS already recognized this, only you seem not.
It’s nice to know you so perfectly with your individual situation to judge it. What’s your tip for her, except doing nothing, because everything doesn’t work anyway?
In this case, she can be consulted as long as she wants, there is nothing! It’s lost time!
Oh yes. Better not do anything and suffer further from the situation, instead of being advised about its possibilities, is a great idea.
In this case, a counselor does not bring anything.
It is nevertheless not perse an exclusion criterion. And in any case, you can be advised there about the individual situation, which financial support you can get.
There will be a lot more clear that one has to be available to the labour market in principle.
You usually do not do that as a student, then a few exceptions are listed.
Doesn’t change that you can usually not apply for a citizen’s money as a student.
Sorry, I thought everyone can google these days. https://www.suedkurier.de/ueberregional/wirtschaft/geld-finanzen/buergergeld-fuer-student-wann-object-required;art1373667,11564923#:~:text=subsidised20wele%20consulted%20consults%20consults,%20financial%20
A quote without a source is worthless.
But that’s it.
You have to be available to the labour market. You don’t do that as a student.