I want to be together with my husband, but he's really reluctant to let our daughter stay with my parents. They don't get along well, and we can't send her to friends either, since we don't know anyone here.
Is there any way we can still be together?
Or are there ways we can maintain our togetherness even with a child?
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You know this before that there will be a thirst stretch if you choose a child. At 6 months, I wouldn’t have left my child, honestly. I’ve been quieting too.
At some point the child sleeps. So how much time do you need?
Does the child interfere somewhere?
She sleeps every night. He hugs and kisses me now only when we make love. Before he came to me he often gave me a kiss from himself. But now He doesn’t make it of himself, only when we make love. 😕😥
Then you start and go to him. Ask him if he’s in trouble at work or anything else he’s busy…
Thank you very much for your help and tips. ❣️
Find out why you’re in pain. Advising marriage or consulting partnerships. That’s not what I think of.
What can I do against this stress? And how can I try that He understands me somehow and doesn’t think I’m stupid? As He always says… 😓
I wrote to a psychologist if necessary. I don’t know the URSACHE for your pain. If you always have to break off because of pain, your husband is sure to be frustrated and makes *tight*. He doesn’t enjoy it if it hurts you. Or he’ll fix it to himself, and give himself the *school* for pain. If you cannot talk about it because of language problems, stress is pre-programmed. I’m not surprised.
I’ve been to the female doctor. He couldn’t find anything. (The pain was aucg before birth, and it was not a normal birth).
What are you talking about? You really think my thoughts are so “ready”?
Okay. It’ll lead me too far. Talk to a female doctor why you’re in pain. If necessary with a psychologist, look where the problem is. 🌺
No. I can’t enjoy sex anymore. I always have to stop for pain.
Yes, “live.” You know what I mean.
You want to enjoy pain or hurt yourself (?) That’s why you’re talking about living out*? Then I guess you need an interpreter.
Well, I just do the pain in sex.
I told him that I missed it and wanted to be alone with Him for example today, but He did not want to leave our daughter to my mother.
Yeah, what’s missing is communication. He can’t be German. That is why He understands everything wrong and if I want to explain it to Him, He believes all that He wants to believe and if it becomes too much, then let us remain silent again
As long as you sleep with each other and it’s nice, you both can enjoy it, it’s good. Tell him you’re missing the little tenderness. Communication is everything.
I’ve been going to Him all the time. Thought could do something, but nothing. He doesn’t even kiss me back.
Okay, well, maybe I’ll exaggerate. Like my mother thinks.
I mean, he’s got enough stress. My mother thinks he doesn’t have a head (more) for it because of the stress. I don’t know if it’s forever, or just because of the stress.
I always think our relationship is broken.
I think too much about it and stress Him even more with these thoughts.
How old is the child?
Are you in the kindergarten? Crib?
Can you afford a babysitter?
Is it still sleeping? Or early night sleep?
All options.
She’s 6 months old.
So I don’t know how much a babysitter costs, but even if I wouldn’t let you in the hands of a babysitter so early.
Then you must hope for a good sleep.