How to deal with a girlfriend who grew up without a father?

She talked about the issue of how she's suffering, and I can tell that it makes her more special. Is there anything I can look out for in the future?

Behavior, choice of words…

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easydating
9 months ago

Red flag. That could be a problem. Better not break your head too much. As long as everything is good, stay, but keep your bag packed and be ready to move on at any time.

xNevan
9 months ago

that makes it more special.

Does a little sound like potting in the minefield, or what is meant by “special”?

Can I pay attention to anything in the future?

If you think you need to be hired, you better.

xNevan
9 months ago
Reply to  Redbluezw771

Treat them like any other person. There is no reason she needs special help. The only thing to avoid is to permanently address this

lynnmary1987
9 months ago

Like everyone else. It’s normal.

Maybe not asking for tips on what she would give to Father’s Day.

Kabeltante1266
9 months ago

Be as you are. Show her it doesn’t have to be bad without growing up. That’s it. She shouldn’t classify this as a “shlimm”. She’s what made this fact out of her. Since she cannot change it, she may accept it. Behave like a friend, not like a father. So not from above, not educational, but friendly, trusting, open. And if she wants to address something that she doesn’t like, with which she has a problem, listen to her and calm her down. Many children grow up without a parent. This is not beautiful, but it is an IS EBEN SO and not an argument for your relationship, because it is not with a father but with you.

DocPsychopath
9 months ago

It is not possible to derive a recommendation for action.

You didn’t call a specific problem she had.

She just got you a guess about Causes their problems for the best. The greatest soul expert could do nothing with this.

maja0403
9 months ago

You shouldn’t hire yourself, you’re her friend and not a substitute for a father figure. Your girlfriend has to handle this, not you. If she doesn’t get it alone, then with therapeutic help.

maja0403
9 months ago
Reply to  Redbluezw771

It is really helpful to stop them looking for a therapist. You’re not a therapist.

No one here can explore the detailed problems of your girlfriend because

a Laienforum and

b unknown person