How to deal with a girlfriend who grew up without a father?
She talked about the issue of how she's suffering, and I can tell that it makes her more special. Is there anything I can look out for in the future?
Behavior, choice of words…
She talked about the issue of how she's suffering, and I can tell that it makes her more special. Is there anything I can look out for in the future?
Behavior, choice of words…
Hi guys, I'm 15 and I've had this problem for about a year now and it's getting worse and worse. It started when I didn't feel well on vacation and I always had diarrhea and when I went hiking it went away. Then at school it got even worse. I was always gassy and overwhelmed…
Hello, I've been having trouble swallowing for a while now because I'm so worried I might choke. Now I can't eat anymore and I only eat a little a day. I have no idea what to do to make it better. Maybe someone knows this feeling or has it themselves and can tell me how…
How much did you grow at 17?
I've been looking for someone to get to know for a long time and nothing has ever turned out right. I'm just ignored, made fun of and ghosted. I'm at the end of my rope and don't want to live anymore. I'm serious. Does anyone know what to do? I'm more desperate than ever.
Hello, I'm 12 years old and I've noticed that I've been watching Telegram videos for a while now. The very first time was when I was 10, when you can't really see that much. It really bothered me. Now I'm in Telegram groups where you can see soldiers being shot, or how they get stabbed,…
Red flag. That could be a problem. Better not break your head too much. As long as everything is good, stay, but keep your bag packed and be ready to move on at any time.
Does a little sound like potting in the minefield, or what is meant by “special”?
If you think you need to be hired, you better.
I would like to hear things here that may help this person who are such a situation or are counterproductive.
Treat them like any other person. There is no reason she needs special help. The only thing to avoid is to permanently address this
Like everyone else. It’s normal.
Maybe not asking for tips on what she would give to Father’s Day.
Be as you are. Show her it doesn’t have to be bad without growing up. That’s it. She shouldn’t classify this as a “shlimm”. She’s what made this fact out of her. Since she cannot change it, she may accept it. Behave like a friend, not like a father. So not from above, not educational, but friendly, trusting, open. And if she wants to address something that she doesn’t like, with which she has a problem, listen to her and calm her down. Many children grow up without a parent. This is not beautiful, but it is an IS EBEN SO and not an argument for your relationship, because it is not with a father but with you.
It is not possible to derive a recommendation for action.
You didn’t call a specific problem she had.
She just got you a guess about Causes their problems for the best. The greatest soul expert could do nothing with this.
You shouldn’t hire yourself, you’re her friend and not a substitute for a father figure. Your girlfriend has to handle this, not you. If she doesn’t get it alone, then with therapeutic help.
I want to hear things here that may help this person who are such a situation or counterproductive. It’s friendly friend
It is really helpful to stop them looking for a therapist. You’re not a therapist.
No one here can explore the detailed problems of your girlfriend because
a Laienforum and
b unknown person