How narcissistic am I?
Hello, 17-year-old female, I'm with a narcissist, and I'm afraid of becoming more narcissistic. I'm a fairly empathetic person, and I have no idea how narcissists feel. I imagine it every day and suffer from it. I'm afraid of becoming narcissistic. I don't want to lose my empathy, etc. I want to be useful to others and be able to help them. That's my only purpose in life.
I want to be useful for others and can help them this is my only way of life.
Such people don’t help anyone because nobody can be your sense of life for you. Not your friend. And no one will be able to give you advice on how to bring your “friend” to be as you want him,
and as I wrote:
Go there. It’s better to help you than we can.
http://www.bke-jugendberatung.de
free, anonymous. Psychological obligation, consultant.
Thank you, I think I see it now. It makes me narcissistic that I forcefully try to change people for better. (as I define it?maybe people see it differently) I should accept that people can decide themselves and that they really want it if they do something bad? I’m trying to stop people compelling my will.
Admittedly, “narcisist” today, contrary to the precisely defined meaning of this term, is unfortunately a fashion word. I don’t read out any narcissism.
I find the idea very good to refer to a website that offers professional advice. There are too many laymen on the way, and there is also a bullshit.
Why did I get on http://www.hilfetelefon.de because there is a lot of violence in the life of the questioners. You can find help around the clock, the bke-jugendberatung.de is also a good hint.
It seems important to me that professionals are being discussed, you can use both portals that complement each other very well!
Sorry.
I doubt you’re with a narcissist.
It’s just a stupid fashion word.