Byrotesand
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As the question already states: How is a "professional" tone of voice defined in the family?
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As a serviceable approach, I would define a communication that is completely free of feelings, emotions and affection and moves on a purely objective level.
The aim here is usually the processing of certain duties and the maintenance of certain appointments, which are not primarily intended for fun, but which are intended to serve several and serve to fulfill the duty. Representation.
The individual is perceived less as a person with personal corners, edges, wishes and individuality, but rather as a functional wheel in the overall transmission.
Hierarchies or patriarchs do not necessarily require. The factual tone and the repositioning of purely factual tasks are already sufficient to create a provocative climate in which performance is demanded and less personal emotions.
Thank you.
I was told the other day that the tone of my grandpa had been very helpful – with heart, but very helpful.
You’ve well described how the tone was at home. And represent was a permanent theme, I say only Sakkos, shirts and Opel Senator.
Straight, normalized without space for extravagants, Schlendrian or own ideas.
An order is given to live in a specific way, all necessary means (food, clothing, roof over the head, education…) are provided and then lived according to Scheme F, in order to remain good to the outside and achieve successes.
The opposite of this would respect cuddles, deep personal conversations, individuality and extravagances, etc
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Yeah, that’s coming. The funds were regulated and it was only good what the well-being found – everything else was crushed, ridiculed or artificially destroyed by non-respect.
The tone was very friendly, pleasing and polite, but he was factual, he liked the tone in a typical German television series of the 80s. Everything was very factual.
There were deep talks, but that was all political, factual, social; something serious and gediegene, where one could not lose the reputation and comprehended respect when one came to it – one wanted to “do not try” but somehow (here with knowledge) and hoped to be more respectful (which usually worked). The view to the outside was enormously important, it almost went over everything else.
Own wishes and ideas of others, even in the family, were only accepted when it was not different, for example when I developed my own musical taste, which was defined by ours, and did not come from it.
Hello red sand!
If in a family the conditions are hierarchical, this can lead to a “service” tone of manoeuvre, i.e. from above and in the tone of command from the powerful to the weaker.
In other families it is sometimes noted among one another that the other has just hit a “service sound” in order to inform the person that they are not communicating at eye level and that this is not okay.
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There is only one question =
Do you want to have a family with which you speak normally, or do you need a barrack tone at home?
I only know with soldiers and executives – who also consider family as subordinates. They think they have the only command at home.
If they can’t leave work at the site.
Not at all, the one excludes the other…
service is service and schnaps is schnaps…family something quite different