How does something like this happen?
Hello:)
Here's another question from me.
I've noticed for a while now that I much prefer doing things with my family, like going to my grandparents' house, helping them, etc. I also used to enjoy staying overnight with them, etc. My brother doesn't do that very often, though. Everyone is different, and they have their own hobbies. He also has a girlfriend (I'll never have a time constraint like that because nobody wants me đ), and he also works alongside school. I work, though, and have a hobby or two, but I still make time for my family. Not often, because your page is often on vacation/away, and the other one makes bad comments about it. But isn't it a shame not to want to make time for your own family? What do you think about that?
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Hello there,
I think it's great that you want to spend a lot of time with your family and also appreciate it. I think your parents did a lot of things right.
Every person is different and this is also good so, my brother had learned his life for a longer time 3-4 years less with the family, more with friends, etc. After some experiences (separation of partners, or mates who then parents had less time) he searched for contact again.
He was and is also grateful that we have a cohesion in the family, has seen with the other families that it was not so there and also learned that one partner is important, but also often is only one part of life and less for the whole lifeđ
It is important that you are happy yourself, whether with or without family.
It’s a shame you don’t take time for your family, you’re right.
Whatever the circumstances are.
The ones have a great relationship to the family and it makes them fun to spend time with the family. For others, the exact opposite is the case.
I can only speak for myself. I like my family, but I couldn’t drive to them more often. Birthdays/Christmas and other occasions are enough for me.
I don’t have a bad relationship with my family, but I’m socially a complete rivet and it’s annoying me more or making me aggressive to hang around with my family all day in a room. But as I said, it is individual, depends on many âfactorsâ.
The family is important – who recognizes this also devotes time to her….
As you say and know, everyone sets different priorities. With your brother, they’re different from you. You like to devote time to your family, he does other things, everyone likes to live with their needs and their own satisfaction.
You shouldn’t be worth it.
There are times when contact with your own roots is very intense, where you want to ask questions and know what you have inherited, and how the parents/grandparents see the world and the events.
Then again, your own life comes with power, swallows time and only allows a loose contact, likewise fine.
Since there is never enough time and opportunity to ask questions, listen to answers, share experiences, and the common time is limited with grandparents, it is particularly important to have and use them. A lot of what you do today, you remember later in love. You can pass it on and keep it in honor.
It depends on the family. Some people are also happy to be able to move out and have to do as little as possible with the family.
Your brother has simply set other priorities for his life and may not be a family man like you.
I think I’m all right.
It’s really great that you spend time with your family. It’s a shame if you don’t. đĒ
I don’t mean evil, but I don’t know how you can do everything you’re talking about your life here.Take your time for your family at some point you’re using your loved ones alone.
I find such a family orientation really cool
Thank you.
They only think about it when the person died. My two siblings are the same. My mother is supposed to make laundry, iron or cook certain food or buy something and the two are adult. They use them out and she’s 74 and she can’t do it anymore, but they don’t care. You’re not doing anything with her like trips, eating or something. On the other hand, I’m a lot with her and we’ve done a lot of things, are really big friends even though it’s not easy with her. If she isn’t, I have many beautiful memories, even funny ones. The two will have nothing but
Mom, you can iron your pants.
You’re gonna cry like anything else. Find that lying wrong. Just roll with your eyes when the day comes. đ
villeicht he does not feel as close to your family as you. villeicht he feels uncomfortable
everyone shapes his life as he likes it.