How do you need to redesign your communication so that others don't label it as spam?

It's difficult to communicate – when you send too many text messages out of fear that you're not good enough at texting – and are therefore seen as a spammer – and thus receive avoidance.

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Bushmills145
1 year ago

If your posts are viewed as spam, then I would not try to change those so that the same content in being reaches the addressees again – he will probably have his reason to look at the reception as spam, and a transformation of form, but not content, then his opinion will probably not change either.

If you do, okay, accept and ignore it. But if many do, think about the content of the sent. Maybe it has a reason to look at this as a spam.

juli1899
1 year ago

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Wisdom4Free
1 year ago

A good thumb rule is when you shape your text messages in approximate length that your chat partner uses.

Basically, you can also formulate a lot of what you might want to know from your chat partner in the form of a statement.

So, for example, instead of writing: ‘Are you a pet?’ you write something like: ”I have two cats. It’s so nice to live with cats together. I love it…”

And then you wait…

If your chat partner is interested in writing with you (and you just want to write with someone if the one wants this, otherwise it would be a waste of time) then he/she will write back to you and refer to your previous message.

If you formulate a specific question, then wait until you get an answer. I realize that it can feel stupid to ‘wait”, so use the mean time with other positven content in your life. Form your question, send it off and then put your smartphone aside and deal with something else. Even if the – possibly trained up to now – should get another message after it… avoid it! Seeing with your inner observer that the impulse is coming up and then either breathing in and out a few times deep, doing lying support or otherwise working with others.

The more often you resist the impulse – to send another message/question – the stronger your autonomy and self-confidence (which will depend less on others).

Try it out.

Good luck.

PS: Whoever did the communication with you as a spam, you should let go and let yourself know from now on. If he/she does not recognize your value and compliment in the form of interest in an exchange, then that has been bad luck and you are ignoring someone else.

XxlumosxX
1 year ago

You better have a few minutes more time and put everything in a message.