How do you live with a narcissistic family member?
The person is always complaining, talking badly about me and always blaming someone else. They also gossip about people they don't even really know and think they're 100% right. It's just exhausting. I'm out in the morning until midday and then want to take a break, the person is unemployed and just complains that I'm not doing anything.
It's now also eroding my self-esteem. What can I do?
This person makes me feel guilty. For example, when my dog died a few years ago, I didn't have the courage to go to the vet and this person still holds it against me today.
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If the other uses bad conscience against yourself, then just accept. I mean like, you know you’re a good person. If someone else suggests you don’t love your pet, you don’t say that matters to him – even if that’s so. Enter and run. It’s not about winning. It’s about protecting you. And if it is necessary to say that this is the case, but it is not forbidden, then it is. Here in the forum you are often insulted by about racist, homophobic, selfish, narcissistic,… whatever. My answer is always the same: yes – and? It is not forbidden to be an A. Whether the other is right or not, he’s not. And outrageous people like the family member in your case can only handle things when they are “slided”. When you talk about it in the back, if you don’t talk about it and put it on the table. “You don’t need to tell me who I am – I know that myself and you don’t care.” NIEMALS discuss if it doesn’t concern others. He’s supposed to believe you’re a bad person. You know better, right? And even if you make mistakes – AUCH DAS is not forbidden. And if you make a accusation from it, you can tell him that mistakes are allowed. If you don’t get it because you’re psychic when you do what it’s your problem. “
Take – turn back – go.
Things someone else says have much more to do with him than with others. Because it’s SEINE. SEIN brain goes and reflects SEINE perception. What such people can tell you can be whistle. And you go to trouble. It is also not forbidden to discuss or to withdraw a conversation. If you realize it’s not good for you – take your freedom and just go. “I’m not talking to you when you talk to me like that.” And if you ask what you’re saying just “you know exactly.” And then you go. His problem. That’s what you need to understand – the whole thing has nothing to do with you. And I’m sure you’ll notice if you make a mistake and meet the right procedure. But others don’t have to tell you who you are or what you can. It’s overriding, depending on the toxic. I don’t know. You don’t have to be narcissistic. But it’s toxic.
Hey, because you’re homeless here. Throw with a two euro piece. And say that once again if you’re stupid of me. I destroy all your contacts between humans.
LG Yoki
What?
You don’t understand.
I don’t understand. Throw and threaten? What is a solution to this? Does he think he’s scared? I would laugh at him – take the 2 Eur and go.
It works well with me. I solve all the problems. In Berlin, they’re stupid.
LG Yoki
Okay thanks for the tip
Okay. I don’t know if you can give the tip to everyone. There is also a need for this. Way to give. And nem toxic people who have good contact will not shock.
You’re working with me. You’re not a stupid Berlin. It’s a clever person. I can say if your friend’s gone. And he believes that.
I’d laugh at you, too, and I’d be sick of the two Eurs. I haven’t met anyone in the last 30 years that scared me. Destroy my social contacts? If you’ve been able to do that, never good. Helps me even sort out xDD