how do i teach my six year old son to sleep in his bed
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My daughter has also come to my bed until 6 years.It’s like the children who have experienced during the day at night in sleep.There are situations that make the children afraid and look for the closeness of the mother. I put her a mattress in front of my bed and made her a bed on it. The whole game went to school until she came to school at 6 years. At once she no longer came at night.From that time she slept in her gracious bed.What you need is patience and a lot of love.In addition, you should ensure that the evening runs quietly and comfortably so that the child comes to rest before going to bed.
The child must always take the time at fixed agreed clock time into bed an hour before the child has to go to bed, you have to take the time and read it to him, and stay with him with the time he learns the by himself to show to the child that he IMPORTANT FOR YOU IS AND WERE IHM Harmony and security, in no case him appearance or evil to him
Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of the longing of life for themselves.
They come through you, but not from you.
And although they are with you, they don’t belong to you.
You may give them your love, but not your thoughts, for they have their own.
You may give your body a place of residence, but not your souls,
for they live in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit,
not even in your dreams.
You can try to be like them, but do not want to make them like you.
For life does not go back, nor remains in the yesterday.
(Khalil Gibran: “The Prophet
Tell him that from a certain age everyone has their own bed. Make it clear that this is not a punishment, but normal and actually something special. Ask him why he doesn’t want to sleep in his bed. Take him lovingly to bed (his own), sit still with him, tell him something or read something to him. Make a night light, leave the door to his children’s room, so he realizes that despite separate sleeping places you are within reach and he is safe. If he comes to your bed, get him back to his own bed.
tell him it will now sleep in his own bed and connect it with a ritual and stay in your attitude it will take some time but if you stay sleeping in his bed then it will soon work out it is due to your consequence. Or make a game out of it when he manages to sleep in his bed then he gets a little bite to make a point system.It must of course stay with a little bit of a little bit and nothing material but a little longer on the weekend, what to play together etc.
just say, “No, no, no, no, no, you’re trying it in your bed.”
and that was.. he would have to try this out and if there are problems, you leave his door open and maybe let a little light burn.
But tell him that you still love him. It’s all very easy. Good luck!
See also: stay hard, after all, not the child is the boss in the house, even if you love it very much and should tell him calmly. Otherwise you don’t do anyone a favor. Children are smart and are constantly looking for borders – they just do their job… And from the little light I’d guess, otherwise, like with the parent’s bed, it becomes a habit – forever and ever… My opinion, but my children have never had a problem with it. Make the best of it;-)
I’m quite the view of smile only should you really bring him back to his bed every time. Lovely but destined. It can be 12 times in a quiet night. But if you just go after yourself because you’re too tired at some point and let him sleep with you, you’ll tell him that he only needs to come enough to sleep with you. If you stay kosequent, it’ll take only a few nights and you both have a restful sleep.
Why should he or should he not sleep in your bed?
Enter a friend who is allowed to sleep with you and, of course, not in your bed. If you like to sleep voluntarily :). LG Lotus flower
Good idea!!!
From a certain age, children should absolutely no longer sleep in their parents’ bed. This is important both psychologically and from the point of view of development.
so stupid, who’s doing that??
is beautiful when children are looking for the nest heat. That sounds all alone…
From a certain age, children should absolutely no longer sleep in their parents’ bed. This is important both psychologically and from the point of view of development.
I also… honestly, I already have a “family bedroom”. my son (in feb. 4) has his part of the room, and I have my part. he usually sleeps with me, and I don’t think it’s bad. he will report if he no longer wants it, and if he becomes too old for the common bedroom, I will move into the living room or seek a new apartment.
Funny psychology, before the children had no own rooms, are they all screwed up? So I didn’t, I had the first room with my sister at 10. I find the price too high. In my opinion, the children need not be isolated, but included. But it’s a matter of opinion. I would plead to introduce family bedrooms. The kids say if they want to sleep in their room. LG Lotus
DH, Lotusblume…. I see that too.
It is abundantly late to want to teach him this now, in my opinion he would already belong to his own bed!!!!
Since he is already (always) a school child, I would try to explain to him that he is already so big that he no longer belongs to his parents’ bed and his own bed is great.
Can he be afraid of anything in his room or is his own bed too small???
Of course he belongs to his bed. But if he hasn’t done it so far, it’ll be hard. The best way to appeal to his honor and to raise a competition, according to the motto, to set a goal what he absolutely wants- Zoo visit, toys etc. if he has got it much praise and recognition and no quick back. It will also be hard for you, because you should be quite consistent, for example, in which you build a bed in his room and everybody sleeps in a bed.
that kills me;
my son has slept from small on in his bed (at first his bed in our room because we had no own apartment, but not long);
Honestly, what would he have been looking for in our bed? we are not paedophile and for us a child is not cuddly because we have any complex; a child should learn his own independence and freedom, with much love;
mother-child, father-child, mother-father, these are all separate layers;
I never went to a psychiate and my son suffered above all in life, because his father, after our separation, was absolutely no longer busy with him;
once he had fear in his room and tried everything to not stay alone;
I took time to analyze why he was suddenly afraid;
we have clarified this and he has never had problems or fear alone again;
good luck
(there is worse: I know a mother alone, who sleeps with her 12-year-old son in a bed, the poor guy, will never find a woman…)
We designed the room nicely, refurbished, decorated toys and I said if our daughter wants to sleep in my bed, then I’ll get her beautiful children’s room for me and that’s mine. I then laid myself in bed. She wanted to have her own room.
I used to be afraid of being alone in the dark. There are these little lights for the outlet – I used to put it right next to the pillow.
By explaining to him that he is already tall and can sleep without parents that the parents are too small?
First of all, by finding out why he doesn’t.
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