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I was talking to a friend recently and we talked about the topic of borderline personality disorder and then this question came up because we don't know anyone who is conscious of it.
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contempt: only a mini fraction of all symptoms. This is different for everyone.
had two friends who had this and that was true:
I’ve read it
it really meets the one I knew
these symptomes do not meet all, I only have the self-hass, the empty, suddenly be sad, self-morning try and cut through thought and self-harm. otherwise I don’t want to have anything to do with borderline because then unfortunately all people think that they’ve always been out and so hot
That is exactly why I wrote this “reality” set very explicitly. Because mental illnesses are often generalized and misunderstood. It is different for everyone
Unfortunately, yes
but if the men know the borderline then they don’t think that you don’t have all sympthome, then they think about blurs and all the other symptoms and then you’ll be treated as a threat only because you have an osych
Also gives Borderliners who project others that they have found their great love. It’s your soul partner. They merge with the other. It’s also called symbiosis. This is unhealthy and a mutual exterme may arise. It looks like love at first sight. At first you don’t check what happened because this feeling is totally ineffective. And what is still quite typical is to mirror other people hardest. They adopt quasi behaviors of the other or, for example, also its mode of expression or settings, whereby the opposite is communicated that one would lie on a wavelength. They also perceive other moods and they can also transfer to them. If you are angry (inside) the Borderliner is also angry. So you don’t have to show it to the outside.
Good question. I can give you two classic examples of how such a situation can take place. (Followers are only Examples! Not every Borderliner is so!)
You’re home with your girlfriend. It’s very late and wants to go home slowly. But she doesn’t let you go because she’s afraid to be alone, or what could happen to you, etc. And she insists so hard that you should stay with her. She puts all kinds of arguments into play and “forces” you almost to stay with her where she manipulates you. Manipulated in the sense; “if you go I’ll do something.” Or “if you go I’ll close.” (These are rather very extreme examples).
Or:
You’ve been talking. You mention a word that triggers her. Vlt’s talking to her family. And it reacts very sensitively to this issue because a certain incident has happened. In any case, as others have already mentioned, it rages out or becomes very angry and cannot control itself. She tells you things that have no connection and make 0 sense for you. And throw yourself in your head, and you just flew over. It can go so far that she’ll throw you out of the house. In the middle of the night. She gets a bad conscience and apologizes. She’s gonna push you off, but she’ll come back “crawling.”
There’s a book called “I hate you, don’t leave me.” Very guet’s book where everything is described. And otherwise there are good videos.
My experience with borderliners was not good. Damalous best friend and ex are borderliner.
Yeah, well. Is which are probably good friends but with me that was too much for me
What did you get too much?
My experiences with the then best friend: ” Her fear was at that time that I saw after my therapy how she really is. “We must not forget that Borderliner is doing everything we can to avoid losing people, borders only do not exceed us.
However, after a therapy you see things so clear and learn to say NO. I suddenly changed negatively and was replaced.
I was like that. With me it was so that I had problems myself and instead of supporting me, she spoke badly about me and sabotaged the few friendships I had at that time. She was very likely so that she was afraid that I would leave her and for that reason it made me hard to have other friends except her. Fears can take extreme proportions if you have them, you are not a bad person alone, but if you transmit these fears to others it is in my opinion mistreatment
No I’ve done everything for six years until I had to lose contact to her otherwise I would have been overcrowded
Did you have such a revolting anger and total insanity To her because she treated you so unfairly etc?
for example, the one friend who was very strong symptome had very toxic, launish and unjust and eventually drove me into madness even though I was really patient for years.
They’re ticking out.
You can’t say that.
Can’t be generalized