How can I trust again?

Contradictory behavior and unpredictability make me completely insecure. One day I'm hot and the next, who's supposed to understand that?

Are people intentionally like that to you or is there something behind it?

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Philosophiexx3
7 months ago

Hello Incognito,

Repeatable and unpredictable behavior is insecure, especially if you have difficulty trusting.🌹 Behavior may happen, but should not be overhanded in healthy relationships (each type of relationship – also friendships).

Proclaims: it can happen that people behave in a reproach –

  • e.g. actually want to close and seek if it becomes too close but take them distance. – that is generally not malicious, but a protection on which work can be carried out

It is important that we can talk about behavior and it is not malicious to you.

Unpredictability: People are always unpredictable at the beginning, we do not know them. But if it leads to permanent insecurity, it is not good for you.

The question is how can you learn to trust again:

Important for a trusting relationship is good communication, so how open and honest one speaks to one another. Worships and fears should be the topic so that everyone can come together. It is important, however, to know your own concerns and fears:

  • Get to know your fears and concerns
  • Learn to share
  • Learn to estimate them: what is a realistic and unrealistic fear.

If you do this, you will also learn to assess whether people take you seriously with your concerns or not. 😊🌹

Love

croissantcrepe
7 months ago

Cause CAN be a personality disorder or other mental disorder such as bipolar disorder or schizophrenia. Also addiction diseases can lead to alternating behavior, such as alcoholism.

However, bodilyness can also be at a young age, or at other, non-hazardous factors, such as family influence, false friends.

Gorkon193
7 months ago

I don’t like this today, and I don’t like it, too, that people are present for a while and then just get away to new shores and you’ll just sit.

What is that? Pur egoism and something you have learned from the Americans….unbinding, regret and reliability does not take place.

easydating
7 months ago

Because biology works. Men and women do not seek in relationships the same things or otherwise expressed:

https://youtube.com/shorts/ZHIfzRBw1eY?si=bKm7d-ovhJnaY0PD

alex9590
7 months ago

Everything possible… intention to unconscious and unreflected behavior.

Predictable thinking / acting.

There’s nothing in there.

jalvi
7 months ago

People who do not know what they want. They cannot send clear signals or make clear statements. Is really difficult with such people

Agnos2
7 months ago

People will live more and more without responsibility