Hilfe.. ich weis nicht was ich tun soll?
Hey… ich merke das meine Mutter mich wieder kontrolliert… ich habe deswegen auch auf Android gewechselt bin aber wieder zu Apple gewechselt weil ich ein neues Handy brauchte.. Allerdings merke ich wie meine Mutter manchmal den Standort überprüft und immer auf mein Handy schaut… Ich fühle mich einfach nicht mehr sicher und ich möchte auch meine Privatsphäre haben.
Wenn meine Mutter irgendwas hochnimmt oder so hab ich Angst das sie mich schlagen möchte… versteht das nicht falsch ich liebe meine Mutter und ich weis das sie mich nie schlagen würde aber die Angst davor habe ich trotzdem…
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Hey, how’s she doing? You don’t have to be afraid, but you’re still young and I understand you don’t feel safe. Try to talk to her about it. I don’t think it’s okay if parents cross certain limits that stress you. Maybe you can agree on something, for example, that she can only check your location in case of emergency, or if you tell her you’re going out. And it’s a difference whether your mother is worried and that’s why your location tracks, or because she wants to control you.
On your Apple phone, you can go to the ‘Where is?’ app and see if it is listed there if you can simply remove it. Or it is in your Apple id, then change your password and you can manage all devices that are logged in with the Apple id on the website and remove it
But first talk to her about it and try to find out why she is
Thank you for the help first 😀
It’s a bit difficult to say. My father said she’s nazistic or similar. She can be nice, but she often says things that are very hurting. She also reminds me to do something about something and if I do something wrong I get the trouble though she can’t do it herself. I like to draw zb lovingly and also wrote such a kind of comic and with my way to draw my mother is also not too happy. If I’d like to, I could write things as if it were a copy. Simply say no matter what I do I do everything wrong and get as good as for almost all trouble..
Thank you, I’ll try.
oke I will do
Also have an narcissistic mother and it’s not easy. I’m so sorry you have to go through this. But it’s good that your father is there for you! If there’s something to report to him and take care of yourself. If you get unnecessary trouble, that’s not your fault, and you can’t feel bad about it. Go to school and keep drawing, you’re sure to do this great and the most important thing is that it makes you fun. beware of yourself so that when you get older you are no longer dependent 🙂
Thank you
She can control you because you are still minor mothers just want good for their children nothing bad. But there are mothers where their children beat in the case this is very rare only if the children are evil must teach a lesson is quite normal you controlled.
But anyway, I don’t feel so sure my phone was my Save Place and I’m not doing anything forbidden on my phone and I’m also old enough to watch me. A few years ago it was worse and my father was and is the only person who trusts me and doesn’t control me because he also thinks I’m old enough. However, I also know more than my mother in the whole technique stuff and generally don’t fall on scams or something.
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