He always wants positive vibes?
A date I'm currently meeting always wants to have positive vibes. I understand what he means and that he doesn't want to see any accusations or jealousy. But then, with positive vibes, I should always be in a good mood, right?
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This is understandable that you want positive vibes. Nevertheless, it always has to do with the mood of the partner whether you feel pleasant vibes or not. If both try to do this, both have something of it. All the other is the ability to exercise tolerance, acceptance and understanding.
Yeah, so I was with him, and I find him laughing hard, how am I supposed to bring positive vibes to me?
Yeah, I see that too. You can't be perfect all the time, etc. Everyone has a bad day. When I was with him, he hardly laughed at himself, and then you automatically become negative. I once had a toxic friend as an affair and he was the same. Wishing positive vibes, Wehe has expressed his opinion. For example, he's in a stupid professional situation. I offered him money. First he didn't want to do this and came back days later, although we haven't known each other for a long time. A man of honor would try to ask close confidants first. I tried to get the money out of my buddy who refused. I told him that and we were discussing the days, and I said I was trying to give you the money somehow, but only in a few weeks. He said the subject was over, you wanted to help first and then pulled back. So I find this statement a nausea, I didn't withdraw, my buddy just doesn't want to help because he still considers our phase too fresh. Later, I gave him my opinion that I just wanted to look at how he reacts and that one does not ask for money (even if I offered it) and a woman does not. You try to ask close confidants. He then wrote this here: I will delete it without your support. I already said, and then you ask why I don't take a loan, etc. is just next. But let's do this now. No, but these constant topics are annoying! You offered it, then pulled it back and then it's just done! So I don't need money, no cleaning lady, nothing for the fridge. I need positivity! Without accusations, subordinates, etc. He mentioned that with the cleaning lady because I offered it. I like to put, I offered him to fill the fridge! So I'd be grateful if anyone could help with such little things.
Why do you offer something that you cannot offer yourself? So, you shouldn't be forced to justify yourself for your 'good deed'. Either you do it or leave it. Then discuss carefully.
Sounds marginal. I'd drill a bit in your place. If he thinks that he has no interest in dealing with the very normal emotions that people have now, I would classify this as a clear red flag…
Yeah, I see that too. You can't be perfect all the time, etc. Everyone has a bad day. When I was with him, he hardly laughed at himself, and then you automatically become negative. I once had a toxic friend as an affair and he was the same. Wishing positive vibes, Wehe has expressed his opinion. For example, he's in a stupid professional situation. I offered him money. First he didn't want to do this and came back days later, although we haven't known each other for a long time. A man of honor would try to ask close confidants first. I tried to get the money out of my buddy who refused. I told him that and we were discussing the days, and I said I was trying to give you the money somehow, but only in a few weeks. He said the subject was over, you wanted to help first and then pulled back. So I find this statement a nausea, I didn't withdraw, my buddy just doesn't want to help because he still considers our phase too fresh. Later, I gave him my opinion that I just wanted to look at how he reacts and that one does not ask for money (even if I offered it) and a woman does not. You try to ask close confidants. He then wrote this here: I will delete it without your support. I already said, and then you ask why I don't take a loan, etc. is just next. But let's do this now. No, but these constant topics are annoying! You offered it, then pulled it back and then it's just done! So I don't need money, no cleaning lady, nothing for the fridge. I need positivity! Without accusations, subordinates, etc. He mentioned that with the cleaning lady because I offered it. I like to put, I offered him to fill the fridge! So I'd be grateful if anyone could help with such little things.
You can't always be happy, that's clear. It's obvious, but it's got a funny taste.
Yeah, I see that too. You can't be perfect all the time, etc. Everyone has a bad day. When I was with him, he hardly laughed at himself, and then you automatically become negative. I once had a toxic friend as an affair and he was the same. Wishing positive vibes, Wehe has expressed his opinion. For example, he's in a stupid professional situation. I offered him money. First he didn't want to do this and came back days later, although we haven't known each other for a long time. A man of honor would try to ask close confidants first. I tried to get the money out of my buddy who refused. I told him that and we were discussing the days, and I said I was trying to give you the money somehow, but only in a few weeks. He said the subject was over, you wanted to help first and then pulled back. So I find this statement a nausea, I didn't withdraw, my buddy just doesn't want to help because he still considers our phase too fresh. Later, I gave him my opinion that I just wanted to look at how he reacts and that one does not ask for money (even if I offered it) and a woman does not. You try to ask close confidants. He then wrote this here: I will delete it without your support. I already said, and then you ask why I don't take a loan, etc. is just next. But let's do this now. No, but these constant topics are annoying! You offered it, then pulled it back and then it's just done! So I don't need money, no cleaning lady, nothing for the fridge. I need positivity! Without accusations, subordinates, etc. He mentioned that with the cleaning lady because I offered it. I like to put, I offered him to fill the fridge! So I'd be grateful if anyone could help with such little things.
You're coming back. So a faux pas of yours.
Vibes and mood are two kinds of shoes.
Yeah, I see that too. You can't be perfect all the time, etc. Everyone has a bad day. When I was with him, he hardly laughed at himself, and then you automatically become negative. I once had a toxic friend as an affair and he was the same. Wishing positive vibes, Wehe has expressed his opinion. For example, he's in a stupid professional situation. I offered him money. First he didn't want to do this and came back days later, although we haven't known each other for a long time. A man of honor would try to ask close confidants first. I tried to get the money out of my buddy who refused. I told him that and we were discussing the days, and I said I was trying to give you the money somehow, but only in a few weeks. He said the subject was over, you wanted to help first and then pulled back. So I find this statement a nausea, I didn't withdraw, my buddy just doesn't want to help because he still considers our phase too fresh. Later, I gave him my opinion that I just wanted to look at how he reacts and that one does not ask for money (even if I offered it) and a woman does not. You try to ask close confidants. He then wrote this here: I will delete it without your support. I already said, and then you ask why I don't take a loan, etc. is just next. But let's do this now. No, but these constant topics are annoying! You offered it, then pulled it back and then it's just done! So I don't need money, no cleaning lady, nothing for the fridge. I need positivity! Without accusations, subordinates, etc. He mentioned that with the cleaning lady because I offered it. I like to put, I offered him to fill the fridge! So I'd be grateful if anyone could help with such little things.
I think you're mindful.
You give him the money and then you're shocked when he accepts it. Are you testing him?
You're offering money you don't have? What were you thinking?
I'm on his side.
You contradict yourself. First you say you know too little and then you want to clean his fridge? So tell him he's dirty.
Vibes translates as much as mood, good mood, atmosphere, vibrations or radiation.
Vibes is the radiation from the inside. The energy you radiate and not the mood mM.
Whatever this is supposed to be 🙂
Then you're a cop. 😉
The above mentioned. You can still do something good for others, even if you have a bad mood.
How's that going?
You don't have to believe everything. That's my opinion.
I don't think that's contradictory.
And yet it's not the same.
I can also have bad mood and send good vibes to other people, hug and give good words.
If you have a bad mood, you send bad vibes.
Sura. But just because you do something at the same time it's not the same.
Have you ever met someone who doesn't radiate energy in a good mood??
You ask him what he's talking about.
Just no more accusations, jealousy dramas eg or repeated appeal to a topic that is done and finished.
I understand who wants this.
Then you have what you need.
Now you can do what you want, since he can never blame you.