Grave full of weeds, may I trade?
meal together,
Last year, I visited my mother's family grave for the first time in five years. I haven't had any contact with my parents, etc., for almost six years, and I intend to keep it that way.
When I saw the grave, I was absolutely shocked. The weeds were so tall that I think it must have been at least a year old at that point. I'm going back there this year and wanted to straighten things out.
But I'm wondering, am I allowed to just garden there? I don't want to plant anything there, just tidy and prune. So, remove weeds, trim the mini hedge, and plant new cut flowers. Am I allowed to do just that? The grave is officially managed by my mother, with whom I haven't had contact for almost six years, nor by my father.
Greetings go out
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Honestly, I'd just do it.
Don't change, just care, what do you want to do about it?
I really don't want to change. Just remove the greenware a little and neck, no more. Nothing like budding etc
Yeah, go. Nothing happens to you.
Yep. Just do
Since you don't have any contact, it can be something to them because it looks like that? Or did this buried family even want to look so high?
But I think you can clean up there. Why not. Your mother might think it was you?
I deliberately stopped contact, there's just too much evil blood. When I was a kid, I was gardening around with my mom once a year, so I remember what that looks like.
I'm just unsure, not that there's stress when I remove the weed, etc…
Have you been forbidden to visit the grave? To lay flowers or something?
If not, nothing happens, what are you going to complain about? They're your relatives, and you're begging the grave, you don't waste it.
If you broke with this part of the family, you also have to leave your fingers from the tomb and generally do not mix into anything. Do not worry.