My girlfriend is pregnant and doesn't want to have an abortion. I already have a 10-month-old daughter. It's going pretty well, but I'm worried that two children will be a bit too stressful. But I can't just leave. Should I try to persuade her? Because I really don't want another child.
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My question is to what extent you get support from the state up to the age of 3 and for how long AFTER the child is born.
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You can at most try to explain your situation to her. but if she doesn’t want, you can’t get her to take a break.
Abortions aren’t “just as” short. they are accompanied by a strong physical and psychological stress.
You can’t persuade a woman to kill her own child. Consider the next time, please, that during sex children can also arise!
Why do you have sex with a woman where you know that if it comes to a pregnancy she doesn’t want to find a common solution with you?
In the end, you can’t do anything. It’s her decision alone.
I didn’t know that, she assured me to take the pill, and if anything went wrong, she would take it off.
Then this is not a serious relationship based on trust when you ask me.
You must have missed the seventh point and you’ve been too familiar.
Wish you all good, but as I said, you can’t force her.
Don’t talk.
Maybe calmly and objectively explain your view and talk about it, she imagines it with both children.
Otherwise, it is completely their decision.
If she wants to keep the child, you can’t do it. It is also her child and a part of IHRES body not yours.
If she decides to be the child, that’s what you can do.
You won’t get around for the maintenance costs, either.
I don’t know I can’t pay her.
Then your elders will have to pay for it, or the state will pay for you for the first time and get it back if you make some money.
Don’t forget it
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Well, my dear, you should’ve thought about it before or kept it. Fun also has responsibility, especially during sex. You have to handle it.
You leave her all alone the decision, you don’t influence her (and don’t even talk about it)!
she lied to him that she hates, he can sue for need
Besides, she could have been pregnant despite the pill, because of an accident or whatever. Sex or pregnancy is always 2 of it, so it is also unfair to leave one’s responsibility for contraception or to give the “school” to pregnancy.
He was too naive to believe it or not to think what happens if that’s wrong or the prevention doesn’t work. That was his mistake not to think of the consequences that can happen with unprotected and avoidably protected sex. He could also have used a condom if a 2nd child (apparently 15) was badly fit in with him in time and financial terms. Of course, you don’t assume that one of the partners is lying to such things, but we don’t know at all, at their age can also be that they just didn’t know what to pay attention to taking pills and that you rub off talks easier than you do.
He likes to report, but the police will laugh at him.
He could have used a condom, that’s all grown on his own. With strangers (and this is definitely it!), you should not have sex without condom anyway.
Don’t!
I do not know a case in the constant case law, which corresponds to your courage.
But I’d like to teach myself a better one. So, get a source out.
Yes, I read after I wrote my answer… difficult situation
If she doesn’t want to resign, she won’t drive. That’s her decision.
That means I have to pay maintenance because she lied to me??
No, you have to pay maintenance because you witnessed children. That was your responsibility. You pay maintenance for the child and not for her.
If you don’t want to testify to children, use a condom
Don’t cry, ask a lawyer
Yeah, I should. If you shoot yourself, who do you think you’re paying the costs for those who make this clean again?
When you drive in front of a tree, who do you think you’re clearing all this?
If you catch up, who do you think you’re paying people to get you down there?
If you spend a few weeks in your apartment, who do you think you pay the cleaning costs of the apartment.
If you jump on a train, who do you think you’re paying for cleaning the train and the rails?
etc.
To your question, if you kill yourself, yes, there are a lot of people paying for. Not mentioned are the people you may tear into death unquestioned, create a psychological burden on others or financially. You don’t get it anymore, you’re dead. For the damage you leave others come up.
MANN ????? the young man is own indication 15 years old!! the gaze hie rist NEE TROLLFRAGE
you knew that you put your snail away without a bag!! but with 15 you are much too young for sex!
No, this is the free letter of one— 15 years– not to have to use a condom or to want, because so much hornier is without condom!! that there are still serious diseases against which you should be protected has not been — stupid!
If it’s purely theoretical, for example, should I commit suicide, then would someone have to pay?
Then your parents will have to pay or the state will take care of it for you and will get it back when you earn money.
as I said.
Yeah, she could have been pregnant in the worst case.
In this case, it is quite clear to assume responsibility for the child. To fall into the disputes as the child has come to pass is already unlucky.
Sure, he doesn’t have to come up for the girlfriend, but the child has now witnessed. It was his swimmers. He has to wear his part on the child. There’s no way to go.
Well, in my opinion, this court decision is also absolutely a freak. but there are our views.
I would have understood if the wife tapped sperm, took her from the condom and fertilized herself with it or punched holes in the condoms or something. But if a man sleeps unprotectedly with a woman, he always has to expect her to get pregnant.
This is a consequence of responsibility from which one cannot simply steal.
There was even a case a couple of years ago, the man pulled out the condom during the sex without the woman getting along. She showed him, the court didn’t consider it a crime. The court said she volunteered.
That’s how it is. He voluntarily had sex unprotected. It is easy to shout after when the pill does not work to claim; she would have put him in.
I think there’s a little misunderstanding here: I don’t want to say that he doesn’t have to take responsibility for the child he has witnessed. on the contrary, whoever can birds can also live with the consequences. But if the girlfriend really lied that she takes the pill, then she acted as lax as a man who takes the condom off the woman’s desire during the act.
Of course, this has no influence on both parties being responsible for the child, because a child can absolutely nothing for the inadequacies of the parents. the only thing I want to say is that at least a little bit of understanding should be applied to men who are abandoned by their women. there are so many men who suffer from their partners. if one would exclude this possibility categorically, choose the dangerous for all male victims of sexual abuse. They also have so hard enough to get over these traumas and stigmatization begins with such a situation.
Nevertheless, he himself is guilty of pregnancy because he himself has no desire to prevent. If you have sex, you get the risk of getting the woman pregnant. The risk that contraception can go wrong is also a matter of course.
It’s not to blame the man. He has had as much responsibility for the child’s condition as she did. One cannot go and say that the child has no entitlement to the producer because he has trusted the woman.
Everyone knows that the pill can’t work here and there. If you don’t want a child, you take care of yourself and don’t push the responsibility to someone else.
Especially since it doesn’t matter for the child. Or would your producer be less yours for you if he voluntarily stuffed his snare into your mom even though she said she took the pill that didn’t work at the end?
I doubt that. You can also be a good father if you don’t have money. Everyone appreciates parents whether separated or not they are emotional and take care of.
The money plays a side role.
of course, but I would just assume he’s telling the truth and giving advice. As long as it is not obvious that he has lied and his girlfriend has become pregnant despite pill, I find it wrong to treat him as if he had a notorious liar. Such a behaviour often leads to men being disillusioned by their ex-wives, for example, in custody disputes, although they did NOT do what is claimed.
How does he know she lied to him? He’s just getting out of what she lied about because she got pregnant despite pill. But he doesn’t have 100% security that she lied to him and just claims it.
You should have thought about it before
Well, I think I’m also a little hard to blame the man here. It is clear that it is a bit blue-eyed, just to trust such a woman when she says that she is preventing, but to tell him now that he is guilty of himself is also wrong. To say that one takes the pill, although one does not do that, is about to carry the same as to arrange a condom and simply pull it out during traffic.
Your child can’t do anything. You only witnessed the child that is what will count for your child all his life.
And he shouldn’t have trusted in their testimony and taken a condom. He’s his own fault.
I don’t have money fucking shit
Still he has to pay
sis lied to him that she takes the pill that was
Each woman has to determine the securitised right over her body.
Your girlfriend, too.
If your girlfriend wants to take the child, then it’s a good idea.
Because no one has the right to force a woman to abortion.
You’re not.
I have no money for another child
And why don’t you notice it when it’s too late?
This question I also ask myself….
Nope. You’re gonna be father again, congratulations.
Dumb running.
She came to tell you 1000x – take the pill and, if so., will be driven off.
It was your risk of having unprotected sex with her.
Well, it’s always two of them that you could have taken responsibility and, for example, use a condom. What kept you from it. If she doesn’t want to run away, you’ll have two kids soon.
I can’t afford to do that, either in terms of time or financial
Next time to think
Yeah, great idea! At the age of 15, you should think of something.
I just give the ball or so I pqck the net more
Yeah, but only theoretical. You can be forced to do so by court order.
Don’t talk out, you’ve had both GV, and that’s what happened. Think about the next time, or you’ll have 3 or 4 children!!
So I can also just theoretically press before DNA test
If it is found that you are the father, you pay as much as you can to survive. That’s right!! She could even complain to the family court if necessary.
Man, your brain was different than you were with her, right?
What happens if I can pay the maintenance
A condom actually prevents the swinging quite well.
If you don’t want any more children, go under a vasectomy.
You can save them lately at the next GV.
Why should she run away? Just because you don’t want a child anymore?
Man, you’re thinking about whether the girlfriend might get pregnant. This is always possible in the normal case, even with pill……she only needs to have been sick in between times and had vomiting e.g.
Condoms would have helped in addition.
You can force her to nothing……either she gets the child or……you can explain what to be.
But I cannot afford a second child in terms of time or financial terms, not even the maintenance I could pay
a lawyer would be cheaper than eim 18 years old maintenance
Yeah, and what do you want to hear from us? The thing went….
And she lied, you know how? It’s not a fact, it’s just the purest guess of you.
man, what do you think we need to let women listen to us for lies from men who want us to get to bed? You were too naive to believe that. With JEDER contraception method, they could have been pregnant because nothing protects 100%. Either one takes the risk and trusts that the prevention is applied or works OR one accepts a pregnancy. As you decided, we know now. You would have also had the option of using a condom in addition, which I would advise you the next time.
You’re still guilty, you could have taken a condom in addition.
Yeah, then keep talking….you’re both guilty of being sworn. She doesn’t get a kid out of the air or should I fool myself?
No but lied to prevent me and in case of emergency