Feeling super lonely?
I've been single again for a few months now, feeling more and more lonely, having no friends, and simply not knowing what to do with my life. I want nothing more than a relationship, but I'm super shy, so I don't have any friends. I just don't dare approach people…
I just don't know what can help… I've tried so many things but nothing helps.
Is there anyone here who has experienced a similar situation in life? How can you get out of such a hole?
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No one else can trust you.
You have to learn to become a polite joymaker and joy-gone.
Mom would have said, “You have no mouth.”
If you want someone as a friend, be a friend first.
Start greeting three people tomorrow. No matter who and no matter how they react. Overmorrow 5 and smile. Learn more and more. Surrender yourself daily: What to ask, go closer, get in touch.
Learn it.
No matter if you keep saying, I can’t, or you say, I learn it. You’ll always be right.
I was so similar. Then I was in a relationship for a short time, but then divorced. I’ve been used to being alone because I’m in work among people, which makes it easier.
But do you really want to get used to it?
Just forced. I’d love to fall in love, but don’t get to know a woman. My life is just routine, more or less stress and then boredom. With a partner, I would have more excitement and joy.
Look at YT’s video of BENEE “Supalonley” with Gus. This could help first.