Freunden absagen und dafür mit anderen? Abmachung nicht gehalten?
Wir haben unter Freunden etwas ausgemacht (Unternehmung). Einer hat abgesagt und will dasselbe jetzt mit jmd anderem machen.
Die anderen sind sauer/enttäuscht und regen sich auf.
Gerechtfertigt?
Depends on the context and how often one looks in general. And how short or long it was before.
If you see yourself regularly, it’s less n problem than if the meeting was one of two in the year.
If the rejection ne week before it happens, it’s different than if it happens in the morning just before you want to go
It’s about the one who cancels us because he wants to do exactly what we had planned with jmd.
Yeah, I understand. Sometimes. In my opinion, the scales are just as close.
Would it have been a way to go to 4. So the other one just came with you three?
Right. For us there is no reason that would be okay. Just changed us.
It’s not a foundation for them. That doesn’t explain why he did it. Rather why he doesn’t understand you’re mad. Bzw. Why it might be him. No matter.
That’s his reason. Because we can still go without him, he wouldn’t be mad either.
Whatever. In this case, it would be urgent to set up a firm.
I’d be less sore as he does. It’s more like he doesn’t justify it.
We had no fixed date so our company would have been flexible. Is that what he really wants to do with jmd different things and therefore cancelled.
Reasons: if one of you had canceled to make it with jmd another, it would not have disturbed me either.
Is that kind of a reason? If, e.g., Ben Freund were there right now and possibly Don’t want to go with 20 people. Or I want to have time. I might. Also cancel friends I see much more often.
Or if it is. N Date with the potential partner. But then I would communicate that.
Of course it can also be that the person is pissed on you because of something (or one in the group). And that doesn’t communicate.
It would also be possible for me personally. It’s a reason to say something to third, and then suddenly 20 people are to go. Or hold at least more than 4 or 5 or so.
No, it wasn’t a problem for us. There are also more than 3, but we find it just fine to cancel us and to do that with jmd different and net with us. Besides, they could have done everything possible and not where we had planned for longer.
Do you understand that would have been a problem for you?
In the end. If you’ve been mad for that, it’s quite okay. And he must live with it. Even if he doesn’t understand.
No. The one who canceled it doesn’t want it. Besides, they could have done everything possible and not where we had planned for longer.
It always depends on how the exact context was. But I rarely have a problem with a timely announcement : Now you asked me if I come here and there, we can move ours.
We have planned to make a company together and look forward to it for 6 months. One of them has canceled because he wants to do the business with others than us and doesn’t understand why the others are mad now
for everyone has planned the evening, is happy and other invitations are not accepted.
Yeah, that basically means “I don’t have a bump on you.”
And to cancel it is basically problematic. Some people also say about others, etc.
Nobody wants to be the third wheel on the car. I think it’s okay
no one would dare the third wheel.
I’m really stupid
I think I’m a little weird. It was planned with you.
I guess I wouldn’t invite him anymore.
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