Freund prahlt ständig mit Geld – was tun?
Hallo Community,
mein langjähriger Freund prahlt jedes Mal wenn wir uns sehen damit, dass er sich ein neues Auto, neues Badezimmer, neue Felgen, eine neue Marken-Jacke usw. gekauft hat…und sagt natürlich immer schön den Preis dazu…damit man ja neidisch wird.
Mich stört dies schon seit Jahren, da ich mir diese Artikel nicht leisten kann und er sich anscheinend „besser“ damit vorkommt…
Leider bin ich selbst sehr, sehr geizig was Geldausgaben betrifft – was, denke ich, diese „Neid“ noch verstärkt.
Beim neuen Auto hat er sich genau das gekauft, welches ich mir eigentlich kaufen wollte und einmal damit bei ihm geprahlt habe… jedoch habe ich dies schlussendlich nicht gekauft…wegen meinem Geiz. Er hat sich nun das gleiche Modell genau in meiner Wunsch-Farbe zugelegt…
Da er ein „prahlender“ „schau was ich mir leisen kann und wie viel Geld ich habe (und du nicht) – Typ ist, und mich das sehr stört, da ich mir einfach das nicht leisten will/kann frage ich mich, wie man hierbei am besten vorgeht…
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You should do something against his envy.
If you only didn’t buy the desired car from Geiz you’re still in possession of the money and your friend has to stick around with the loss of value.
So why envy? You can buy the car every day in the car house….
Loss of value does not seem to be of interest to him, as he “scared” his old car and he had a completely new car within a week – which is why I should of course drive to him… and since I myself am very greedy and have been knocking around with the “car buy” question for almost a year and always coming out to the same answer as “I don’t need the car (although I want of course).
so I decided not to buy a car
It is a wise decision, which I make less sense than reason.
Just stop it.
And of course you should rethink your “Geiz”. You should also enjoy life. No one can take anything if it’s over.
Just let it go.
Probably you have more money on the high edge than him.
That with the brands is so if you have no character. I don’t care what brand my clothes are. Mainly cheap, everything comes from the same container.
I wouldn’t buy new cars anyway and don’t even lease. Waste of money if it’s not just a VW Fox or Lupo, but whoever’s on it should do it with bigger cars.
Hello,
That’s exactly what your fault is.
That you allow him to show that it makes you jealous.
I also have great things….and now?
Each one has something the other doesn’t have. You too!
I don’t care if there’s 2 Lambos on my daily.
Only a car.
Man is more important to me.
Best regards Rodium
Well, you have two options:
The decision is yours. From my point of view, a simple decision. If the only content of your common time is its new acquisitions that only serve the purpose of annoying you, this time should be deleted…
I wouldn’t call him “friend.”
Friends help each other and are there when you feel less good.
You don’t need that guy. Make contact. He’s not good to you.
Then separate from him. He may not even have half that. He’s got only a fucking ego.