Boyfriend takes chemical drugs?
Hello,
I've been with my boyfriend for over half a year.
The "problem" is that he takes drugs. Sure, I like to party (alcohol), but I don't take anything else.
He, on the other hand, also smokes weed and also takes chemical drugs (ketamine, MDMA, amphetamines, cocaine, LSD, etc.). He only does the chemicals rarely, and only when I'm not around. But I still think it's shit. Yesterday, because of his high, he overslept our date, and we got into an argument.
He's really interested in the topic and is simply curious. I don't know much about it, which is why I can't get used to the idea.
He's usually the best friend ever. But I still don't know… I just feel weird right now. But a lot of people take drugs, and they only promote bad things.
So am I selfish if I still want him to just stop doing it?
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I don’t think it’s selfish, but you can’t tell him. You can ask him/it recommend to leave it, but what he does not influence. And as a result of pressure, this will most likely not work as e.g. “You leave this, or I’m gone” (hard example), then it feels under pressure and there are vague short-circuit reactions. Talk to him alone about what you want to be best, and that’s why he wants to stop eating something like that.
I hope that will help you a little:)
All drugs are chemical substances. Alcohol is ethanol. In cigarettes is nicotine. In coffee caffeine etc.
Curiosity and great interest in this is a dangerous mix. In the beginning it is still irregular, later every weekend. Until he takes it almost daily. You always think that you have everything under control, but that’s wrong. It really goes fast and until you realize it, the person is in a vicious circle.
I know where I’m talking about, I’ve been insane and underestimated. I almost made it and fought it out. And I think it’s very hard.
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It’s his decision.
And as you say, you can also read yourself into the subject.
Nobody forces you to take anything.
You came with him despite his addiction
Why would he change something now?