Boyfriend shit in my bed several times, now a turn-off?
Hi,
As strange as it may sound, I (f.22) and (m.22) have been together for almost 2 months now and everything happened pretty quickly. He's actually a great boyfriend and does everything right. A month after we got together, he came to stay sick at my place and wanted to sleep over. I had to go to work the next morning, so I was asleep and was woken up in the middle of the night. He told me he was extremely embarrassed, but that he had unconsciously shit himself in his sleep. I smelled it straight away and was naturally disgusted. Nevertheless, I felt sorry for him and we changed the bed etc. before going back to bed.
Afterward, I was woken up again because it had happened to him again. I was a little irritated, but out of embarrassment, I didn't want to ask him if he could at least go home. When this happened a third time, and I made the bed again each time, I said I didn't have any more sheets and I had to work. I was so disgusted and irritated, but I didn't show it.
I then told him to please take a bag and go to the couch. It happened to him again that night, although I didn't notice. I was so overwhelmed and disgusted by the situation that I couldn't sleep a wink just because of the stench that still lingered in the air. He then left my sheets in the bathroom, and I washed everything.
This may sound childish or incomprehensible to some, but I've been trying to forget about it all for a month, and I haven't been able to. Since then, I haven't felt any attraction to him, and I'm incredibly sorry about that. I hoped it would go away, because he's actually a really nice guy otherwise, and it must have been very uncomfortable for him.
what should I do?
thanks in advance?
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Even if he was “inconvenient” – you should have talked about it. You can’t leave such a thing unnoticed…. especially since he was obviously not willing to eliminate his “restitutions” completely. He should’ve offered that. You need to clarify if it hadn’t been possible for him to go to the toilet – whether it could be a fetish – whether it doesn’t matter and happens more often… I have some questions. If he doesn’t come out honestly, you should consider a separation, because his behavior that night was anything but normal.
He’s got a problem. Either you can make friends with it or you’re supposed to be looking for someone else. I’d do the second thing you’d do, just as bad as it might sound.
I wouldn’t expect this to be solved differently, and I doubt you want to talk about it or do it again.
If I still include your other questions, I would like to give you the following advice.
Take some time for you, you’re still young and you’re moving from one relationship to another. It sounds like your doubts are surpassing your love for him anyway, and that you are more likely to get stuck with the relationship from compassion.
For empathic people it is hard to end something like this, you suffer so much with the other person.
So it would certainly be hard for you to break up, but I think it would be better for you.
All good
Send him to the doctor. Something can’t agree that he doesn’t have control even after several days.
Nice story, but the third time has broken credibility. 😁
You just have to flush down the memory.
in the klo
Come on. Find a new one
buy him cork for the ass
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