Frauenarzt Termin Untersuchung, wie wird es leichter?
Hallo, ich war heute beim Frauenarzt, wo es sowieso schon so unangenehm ist. Nun zu meiner Frage, er hat das Spekulum eingeführt und seine Finger auch und meine Bauchdecke abgetastet soweit normal. Dann hat er aber mit seinen Fingern noch meine Scheide allgemein angefasst und mein Po-Loch angefasst. Das war voll unangenehm schon allein auf dem Stuhl und weil er kein Wort während der Untersuchung gesagt hat, er das Gerät und seine Finger einfach reingesteckt hat und mich angefasst hat. Wie wird das für mich beim Frauenarzt leichter? Wie geht ihr damit um? Ich brauche diese Untersuchung für mein Pillenrezept, um nicht Schwanger zu werden..
Would change the doctor or appeal to him.
My lady doctor explains to me every little step she’s doing.
The communication during the investigation was unfortunately “suboptimal”, it would have been better if he had explained to you his investigation steps. If your style doesn’t suit you, change the doctor and rehearse you in the acquaintance at which doctor it works better.
You better find another doctor. There’s no chemistry. If you have a young and inexperienced patient and then carry out the examination without any explanations, then this is little sensitive. I recommend the evaluation portal Jameda, unfortunately it is often so that the ones with the best reviews do not take up new patients anymore, but the attempt is worth it.
Otherwise, you will only be informed next time that it would help you if the doctor explained the individual steps of the examination with a few words.
Is actually the doctor of my mother, I’ve only been there for years and I don’t know him otherwise. All others are already “forgiving” is hard to be restarted, especially in today’s time. I also said to Mama that I don’t want to, but she meant who sex has to take care of care. Well, I just didn’t expect him to catch my vagina like this (painting and looking at it) and also to change the hole and feed it.
But this is part of a thorough medical examination of all that was correct only that he did not speak to you at the same time was not satisfactory. And your mom’s right. You should also be inoculated against genital herpes infections (HPV) to prevent cervical cancer that is sexually transmitted.
I managed to get it so that you can sample the ovaries differently and partially better from the after. Therefore, many doctors do this (even if you have no complaints). Most doctors do not warn you so that you don’t get tight and thus the insertion of your finger becomes more difficult. At the doctor in our town, you should suddenly have a finger in the Po without warning, which is surprising and not pleasant.
I just gogled. You’re right, it’s part of the investigation, but, for example, it’s only applied in case of complaints or in case of still existing virginity. Doesn’t affect me either, but he probably just wanted to look at everything thoroughly. And yes, since I didn’t choose it or he said anything, I couldn’t give up this valuable experience. I just know now that I’m even more swaying for the FA.
Yeah, I’ll do next time and maybe go in with my friend or mother. Then it’s easier for me, and they’ll get it if there’s any conspicuousness.
It is part of a thorough check-up to also scan the after and end intestine. On this way you can also reach the space behind the uterus. I think, however, that it doesn’t make any sense with a young patient without complaints and would do without the investigation.
Please tell the doctor to tell him what he’s doing. He may have too much routine for long-term patients.
Sorry the polo doesn’t have to touch and don’t caress the vagina. I’m old and this has never been done.
My doctor is talking to me a lot. He’s never touched my polo. It’s a little weird with you. I’d be looking for another doctor.
a woman.
Why is he wearing your polo? Talk to him and take your girlfriend/mother in.
I don’t think he was perverted. He has a woman and children who are often in practice and his wife is also his employee secretary.
I don’t know what that was, he didn’t say anything, and for me it was just weird and very unpleasant, I was glad when I was out.
The next time, it would be better…
So what? Do you think seriously married men with children do not commit sex. harassment, don’t go strangers, don’t abuse their own children, aren’t serial killers? Are they all too, at least depending on did very many to individual.
It’s best to ask him what he’s got with your polo and why he strokes the vagina. It’s okay inside, not outside.
Don’t worry, it’s all like that, if that happens to me, I’m going to react as an old woman. It is also a little unpleasant and embarrassing.
But you have to learn to do it anyway.
I’m very naive and always think of the good in man… so no, I don’t think of that.
I don’t ask him anymore and I’ll just make a bow for a year around him. He won’t remember it anyway. I should have asked him questions, but honestly, I was still quite afraid and respect for the investigation. I was just too busy working these impressions.
Thank you for your help!