Hallo ich heisse Melli und bin 14 und meine Eltern wollen mit uns 3 Wochen aufn Fkk Campingplatz fahren. Ich weiss nicht was ich tun soll das ist so peinlich da vor allen komplett nackig rumlaufen. Mein Vater sagt das ich mich nicht so anstellen soll und meine Mutter sagt das ich mich auf jeden Fall ausziehen muss. Mein Bruder grinst schon jeden Tag der ist 15 und der hat mich noch nie nackig gesehn. Was soll ich machen?
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I can understand you. In your youth at your age, it is often very embarrassing to show yourself unclothed. Your parents should tolerate that. No one can force you to.
We’re used to bathing at the nudist beach. but when our children came to puberty, they suddenly found it embarrassing. We accepted parents.
Nakedness is our natural form of existence, but if someone is embarrassed, you don’t have to force it.
If I’m great, you’ve immediately responded to the wish of your Teenies. Because it’s really totally understandable that you find it strange at that age.
I admit that at first I made fun of it when my daughter ran around the nudist beach in the bikini – because it was more striking than she was undressed.
But I have accepted their uncertainty and finally also understood that it had to come clear with the change of her body first.
Yeah, it’s just that phase when you get from the girl to the woman. The hormones play crazy. You no longer feel comfortable in your own body because it changes so much.
It’ll be back in the change. Of course not so violent. But I had wallings, I increased 10 kg. What was not bad, because I always weighed 52 kg and then held 62 kg.
Only it was just unpleasant, uninhabited, unfamiliar. I didn’t do anything to drink the ointment for sweating and two years later I was 52 kg again and the wallings were gone.
That’s it!
Today my daughter laughs. But then it was a real problem for them.
Yes, this is just a part of it on the way from the child to the adult, that a lot is very embarrassing and even affects the body.
Many don’t feel beautiful, too big, too small, too, too, too, too….and all look much great.
There is a nudist that becomes a torment, simply because one has not fully accepted oneself.
On the one hand I can understand your fears and worries well – but on the other hand I also know how pleasant and liberating it is, for example: to be nacky on the beach or on a campsite!
But if you don’t want to partout, you have to tell your parents that! Then you need to find another solution for you together. Maybe it would be helpful, for example, if you just walk around in the bikini panties while all the others are naked?
I wouldn’t overestimate what your brother is doing! If you give him a spell like, for example: already forget that you are naked – and I will look at your little snare. well, he’ll let you get up with it!
Maybe you shouldn’t see the whole thing so negative! You have the chance to make a whole new body experience. And if, as described above, you can get cautious about this, you will probably even like it!
For my part, I’d rather go naked to the beach than in such a silly swimwear and want to not miss this wonderfully liberating feeling of enjoying the sun, the wind and the sea naked!
It is very cross-border if your parents want to force you to run naked.
I just wouldn’t take off. End of discussion. No one can tear your clothes off.
No one can force you, not even your parents. Just leave it.
Lg^
Why don’t you run around in the bikini, maybe you’ll figure it out to run naked after a few days.
I understand you. Ask if you can go to the Grandma on vacation instead of having to go with them.
You’re just developing, you don’t feel so safe in the *new* body. Your parents should understand.
Tell them that you don’t condemn it, just that you have shame, what they had with 14 years. You’re not going to feel so bad about your brother seeing you naked.
Because nudist is actually rather something for older people who then don’t glotte, just like guys do. The ones are with their body and not only to explore it.
That would be different if you had always and forever made nudist-ferries, but even there are young people who no longer want this in this phase of life and then perhaps only later activate it.