Entire life called into question?
Hello, I'm curious: Have there been situations that made you question your entire life and your dreams? If so, what do you think was the trigger?
I think I'm going through something like that right now, and I feel a bit lost. My sister told me today she's unexpectedly pregnant. It's stuck in my mind so much that I'm considering whether I even want to marry my boyfriend. I definitely don't want kids, but I'm also afraid of being an aunt.
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As an aunt, you have to do exactly nothing if you like sister, you can fuck around, but you have less contact because she has to do.
B You only have this limited lifetime you need to know what you want to start with at some point.
I don't see children as a way of life, I don't get married.
All right. I like my sister. Never had a lot of contact since we left out, it only comes with problems, but of course everything is their decision. For me, it's crucial that it does something with me…
had you had such moments?
Why do you even care about her child?
You I had to try to survive every day without getting mentally crawling, I'm not questioning life itself, for what, I'm questioning my attitude to life, or if I want to keep certain things like this, which makes sense only if you don't have a bump anymore, but I'm looking for what I'm doing somewhere consciously, I don't have a regret or something.
you have no time to do with her, she's really just taking you out, but you want to be there for her?
enjoy the free time just to get married, eg is unnecessarily purely logical, you don't have to go through a fairy tale monasteries of childhood when you're happy and that doesn't start in the inside in the outside
Well, I love my sister and support her wherever I can. Would also like to be there for the child… to be a good aunt. Nevertheless, it is primarily a shock.
I mean that. I also think about my attitude to life. Do I want life as I planned or dreamed? Will I sit there at the age and regret what? What would be the best decision for me? I know nobody can take this off. Nevertheless, I always had a clear picture. Study, marry, make a career, enjoy free time.