Emigrating – what should I do?
It's very likely that I'll emigrate to Portugal starting next school year (my father is Portuguese) and attend a new German school there. I'm extremely happy about this, as I can no longer cope psychologically with all the people at my current school.
However, there's one "friend" at school I'll feel sorry for. The problem is that there are phases when she's really nice and funny, but then there are phases when she behaves extremely inappropriately and toxically. But at least we're lucky that we have each other in the "bully" class, where many are against us, and that we have enough other friends in the parallel class. Still, I would leave her alone in that terrible class.
What should I do? I can't stay at this school anymore, and my family also wants to move to Portugal.
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The girlfriend should try to be put into the parallel class, maybe You support them by talking to teachers and the Rector. You can’t do anything else.
Yes, this is the problem: each class has different priorities, the other 4 classes in vintage 11 all have a common focus, except my class, we have another focus, so we are the only ones where it is impossible to change the class…
How many years does she have?
You can still try to talk to teachers, maybe an exception is possible, and then you have to learn as soon as possible, which is missing from the material for the parallel class. It depends on her whether she can pack it or not, otherwise she must bite in the acid apple and stay there. You can’t take her to Portugal like a pet.
2 1/2 years to 13th grade…
Pull to Portugal and forget it!
…and do not call your father “Portugieser” – that is a WEINsorte!
Yes, that was in the car correction, I didn’t know
Hello, leonie040707. 😊
You are doing exactly what your heart is telling you and your head….
Greetings, Renate. 😊
If your family goes to Portugal, you have no other option anyway. Your friend could visit you on vacation.
But the SCHULE has to do something about bullying. Have you ever complained?
Well, my parents are separated and only my father would go there with my brother and me. Two months ago I had the idea to go to Portugal and my father was also thrilled because we’ve been talking about it for two years, but it never really meant so seriously. So my father does not want to emigrate there alone, but only if I were accepted at school, for example, as he had a good job both in Portugal and in Germany – that is why the decision is left to me.
yes and because of bullying – it’s not a direct bullying, but rather an indirect one, so people are just against me and my girlfriend, and they’re closing us on purpose, but it’s not that they’re insulting us now.
That’s exactly how bullying starts. And the SCHULE has to stop it. Often there is a clear conversation with the social worker.
Yes, but that would only bring more drama. In addition, my girlfriend has this “zero-bock setting”, she doesn’t care, especially because we have other friends outside the class. She simply thinks: “No matter, just last for a few years.”
That’s why the school social worker. It’s paid for
The problem is that these are all so girls who are really extroverted and do one on Fake-nett. So really wrong-net. And we are the ones who are just normal and quiet (we do what we have to do, not something voluntary social?). And that’s why they have something against us. And the teachers like all of them because they are all always lying in and extroverted.