Parents forbid everything?
Hey 🙂 I'm a 16-year-old girl, and as I described above, my parents forbid me from doing anything. During the week, they only want me to study, and they even forbid me from hanging out with friends on the weekend. I don't understand it at all, because they always just give me the excuse that I need to study more. (I'm not really bad at school either; I'm in high school, and my grades are somewhere between a 2 and a 3.)
They also come into my room every half hour and always want to know what I'm doing, and in the evenings I always have to show them what we did at school and explain the new topics to them, which I also find completely unnecessary.
I don't really have any privacy either. If I don't want to tell them what's going on in my life, they always say, "Well, then we'll just look at your phone and read your chats." They also forbid me from using TikTok and Instagram and from contacting boys, which I don't understand either. I'm never allowed to have a boyfriend.
If I do something wrong in their opinion, for example get a bad grade (4), they just shout at me and insult me, saying that I'm worthless anyway and that I can't do anything, etc. That's why I'm totally afraid of my father and I don't think it should be like this.
Do you have any tips against it, because I don't always want to do everything secretly
Best regards 🙂
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Hello,
presumably, in your situation it is very important that your parents are “advised” from the third side. Don’t you have a trust teacher or trust teacher at school with whom you can discuss the conflict with your parents? It would then be conceivable for them to be addressed on a parent’s evening. Whether they can explain why you always make an almost depressive impression. If your parents experience that from the outside the relationship is respected in your family, this could already bring about a positive change in behavior.
It is also conceivable that you have confidence among relatives and/or acquaintances who work with your parents for you.
Well, and if you really don’t have a positive change, you could still contact the youth office if you don’t.
But maybe you can make your parents realize what belongs to the life of a six-year-old today.
You mean they just want your best. Now they still have to learn what this is 😉
This is not possible…you need your privacy u with 16 you should also do something other than just learning…at well-known this was also so…the son has painted big H with a circle around on a sheet of paper and glued to the door as Helikopterlandeplatz….the well-known could not understand it and have told them…after we wash their head clearly better it was
Dude, that’s really sick. Your parent mpsseb Learn that you are going your own way