Loneliness makes you crazy?
Is it normal to become increasingly strange and eccentric because of loneliness? I often talk to myself, and increasingly loudly, too. I don't care what others think.
In general, I'm getting weirder and weirder, like a weird old man, but I'm not that old yet.
But well, that's loneliness, I guess. I've accepted that I'll probably be lonely forever, the older I get, the lonelier I'll be. And if my parents die, I'll be even lonelier.
Yes, my parents are my only friends. Is it normal to feel weird when you have barely any social contacts? No partner.
(7 votes)
Loading...
It is something completely natural that people suffer psychological problems by loneliness. You need social contacts with healthy group dynamics.
But you only have your parents and you probably barely meet people that destroy you. I can give you advice.
Breathe deeply and ask yourself what you wish. Think about borders and risks to make decisions easier. Start acting in your life to make it more exciting.
An idea that you might deny is that you should be more among people and use psychological help. If you have recovered from your loneliness, it will be easier for you to approach people and establish social contacts.
My second idea is that you should go back to nature. If you’re risky and think that your life can’t be worse, that’s a good option for you. Your only social contacts would be animals, which would fit well into your presumably anti-human vision. Of course, you don’t have to go back to nature to keep animals, you can do that now if it’s something for you.
My third idea is that you give your life a meaning by helping others. Maybe medical help for people in Uganda? Or nurse in a national park in Namibia? It can of course also be in Europe, but if you move far away, you can experience new things and get to know people with different cultures. housing charitable projects,e are organised by organisations.
My last idea is that you want to make a passion of yourself (music, sports?) a profession. It’s something you can live for, what a goal is. As a singer you could sing songs about loneliness and then you have not only a meaning in life, but also a pastoral care in the song.
Many greetings and all good,
Anastasiya🌷
That’s how I feel. To 100%.
It’s just that I have a little more psychic stuff. I’m trying to save you all that I can…
One thing, for example, would be that parents are not all in life. Errors also belong to it, and even if parents may show little tolerance, they also made their mistakes.
Number two, friends are great. The best times in my life I had with my friends, it wasn’t as much as with other people, anyway. It’s best to look for friends where you can be yourself, and looking for friends is quite simple, because what once has to understand is that there are no “bad” people. There are stupid or selfish people, but there is no evil intention behind it, just a lack of vision or compensated for own wounds or pain.
And with this I come to Number 3: Friends make you just as lonely. Man is super in learning and connecting things, yes, the whole brain is nothing but connections, and whether you like it or not, in 20 years you will be another person, the question is only: Which one; and this is only with you and the experiences you will still do!
“Don’t do it.” I know we live in a system of doctoral titles and celebraties and whatever, and you think it’s impossible. No. Every person can do everything and be everything, and just because you have a disease, you cannot be popular or famous (Stephen Hawking). And if you think of the most stupid person you know, and consider that even the one who has friends, then you’ll see that you can loosen it. (There are women who love their men, although they are beaten, or 300 kilo pairs etc.)
So, of course, it is best to join an association (must not be movement sports, can chess etc.), just sit regularly in a bar and talk openly with people, or if you like to play cards, go to a lap tournament, or to fill up Fortnite Squat with open mic, absolutely no matter. And even if it’s just looking at a football match of your regional village club, no matter trying to train openness (anonym starting is great) and learning to conduct conversations, and make it easy.
Life is there to be lived, there is no wrong or right. But to mourn all day and find no more fun in life is not the true.
And I don’t want to put pressure on you, as I said, it’s the same, I moved a lot, had zoff with my parents, but have now found a separate apartment and joined my local football club, was only 3 times there, but the people were all super nice, and had fun with them
VG <3
You may be highly sensitive or highly intelligent. Then you need more time to sense and reflect. Self-conversations are not a problem, others do. Maybe you are hard to find friends, and you prefer to live after the motto, rather quality instead of quantity. If there are interest groups or associations you can join, you might find friends.
Just try it. But there are really people who prefer to be alone more often (all aren’t lonely) and refuel as better than in a loud club.
No thanks
Why? Interest groups are beautiful.
Find out. There are certain possibilities. And then it goes up psychologically. Good luck!
I don’t know.
That can be good, yeah. What kind of options do you have for improvement?
Sure, you would also be with severe chronic pain
Sounds slightly depressed.
Because I don’t care much
Can happen, and at some point, you’ve fainted. Society. Society you never wanted and that you can only perceive. My neighbour is rarely alone, he has his baptisms with his non-physical buddies, and sometimes they seem hard to fight, then he yells at them.
Well, not all alcohol patients see pink elephants.
Not?
I guess you might just have problems with others (outside your family to open). Try it, then you’ll see that it’s not that bad and you might even find friends.
Being alone is sometimes quite beautiful, but no one wants to be lonely.
Nothing comes from….
No one will come to you.
You have to be active yourself if you want to find friends. It’s hard and it’s time. Good luck!
Doesn’t seem to be worth it.
Then you have to get away with your loneliness and with that you will not have any contact if your parents are no longer. Such a life goes well. It depends on the inner attitude. If you don’t miss anything, it’s okay. And if you’re getting a little scoundrel, that’s okay.
Hello alone.. how old are you? I feel the same as you and feel myself alone at the moment and have no friends..
I live for example in a little bit and I find here you are really hard to find friends
What are your hobbys? Are you looking for real friends or online? Just write to me if you are interested in a friendship:( 🙁
I will also like such a bitter senior
I wasn’t finished,ups… I’m going to be just like a bitter senior, and I’m still far away from it.
My life so far was the purest catastrophe, I don’t even know how to be happy or healthy. I’m talking to me too, I don’t care what the others think of me. Meckere about every crap. And I’m just very alone.
Earlier, as I remember, I was a child for justice, helped everyone. Any love given. It came from the heart. Never got anything back. I don’t have it and don’t expect it from those where I helped.
In general. When I needed help and wanted to let me help, not even there I got help.
Love!
Can understand your frustration. I’m fine. Loneliness really makes sick. Most people understand that only if they are really affected. Many even get one on the lid when you tell how much you suffer from loneliness and in my case relationshiplessness.
That’s right, I’m also in no relationship.
And hope this will change soon!
Go to a club. Then you have social contacts.
If you still have your parents, you are a person I envy about it 😭.
Definitely, you’re never lonely as long as you still have your parents!