Eifersucht und neuen Mann kennenlernen?
Ich komme mit meiner extremen Eifersucht nicht zurecht aufgrund mieser Erfahrungen. Hab mir ein Buch dagegen gekauft. Ich möchte das ändern, für den Mann den ich gerade kennenlerne. Es stresst ihn extrem, immer wenn ich frage, warum er online ist, sagt er, weil das kein Verbrechen ist und weil ich’s kann, also hör auf damit! Bekomm das endlich in den Griff!
Ich frage mich, warum er trotzdem bleibt und dran bleibt, ist das eher ein gutes Zeichen das er will, dass ich ihm endlich vertraue und weil er mich mag? Das einzige was ich noch komisch finde, wir sehen uns jetzt bald und ich sagte ich bin Horny, er freut sich darüber, sagte aber er momentan nicht so, aber das kann sich ja schnell ändern. Das finde ich krass, als Mann muss man doch permanent geil sein und Lust auf dein Date haben? Da fühle ich mich jetzt nicht sexy genug als er das sagte. Wie seht ihr das?
Hello Newwoman1990👋
But you also believe fairy tales, wow, nice as you put men in drawers, Bravo.
Also a man has phases in which he has no desire, that is completely natural, also it is natural that man cannot always be able to stress, head full, that has all the effects, even a woman does not melt like a waterfall as soon as a man makes them sharp, these prejudices are corrosive.
And I want to be honest. You are not able to judge your questions about, at least not currently. With the questions you ask, I don’t know how many men you date, how many you really have contact with, you also have people who stalk you and you didn’t just mention that you’re gracious. Relationships, fears, everything.
I find it admirable that you realized that you have a problem, but the guy won’t change it with a fingertip. Take a break from the dating and men and get a therapy first, because you can work on your past and your bad experiences and then you can enjoy having good experiences, I wish you.
In previous posts, she wrote that she works at an escort service. Why don’t you ask what kind of men it has to do and what impression it has to be. By the way, all the stories are very hard to believe
As I said, I don’t have a real look at all the people and people who are being met or who are going to do it. Therefore my proposal with the break. Whether and to what extent this is true, what is there, who thinks to have to invent stories, it would be sad if you had to do that, then something is wrong, but that can only the person know and change.
Since you are investing more emotionally at the moment, it is clear that he subconsciously thinks you are very safe. That’s why he’s not dauerhorny either.
I can only say:
You should change for yourself because and if you want it. Not for a man you seem to be completely “hearted”.
As can be seen from the texts, it determines where it goes.
This should not be the right choice for you – you lack self-confidence and self-confidence.
There is no book that helps – a therapist!
Luckily not every man has long since.
He seems to like you, and I think NOCH has the hope that you change.
After what you write here, I hardly think a book will actually help you, a therapy would be better for you.
You’ve got a lot of ideas and ideas, that’s maybe 16-year-old Bürschlein, who are permanent, but not 40-year-old men!
They’re cleared and don’t run around all day with stand in the pants. Do you mind, you’re not 16… 😅
Okay, that’s true. But every man is different! My buddy who goes to the 50 but looks over 10 years younger cannot get enough of sex. He talks to women everywhere. On holiday it was quite embarrassing because we had to wait for him until he finally got the number. Vllt is a cuddly guy. Of course, I’d be happy. I realize that as a woman with 34, I’m not as much as I used to be. I went from one date to another under 30. Today I don’t have sex for six months, because no one is there. My last one was in the summer of last year and now the guy comes here. We haven’t had sex yet. All here he wants to say only that, but then he would have put him in long ago, we had only petting, blowjob and I did tongues anal with him and that was it.
I know, read it! Have a little patience, I also know that it’s hard for you when you’re hot and he doesn’t make you fuck, that’ll let you go.
Who knows, maybe this is also a tactics of him, he has you firmly in his hand and is sure of you! He’s the boss and he’s determined when the time is here to take you!
I think that even makes him feel like seeing you in the state…
And he can’t run for him.
I’ll keep pushing your thumb! 😘
Yes, he is also slightly dominant and wants to determine and like it when playing with his sperm. I’m totally freaking out and I’m wet, even send him photos as proof as I run out.
You are insecure and not jealous, you need to become more self-assured
No, I want the man for me alone.
You’re really exhausting.
What a bullshit 🤣 who says that? 🤣
That’s your problem. You have a self-worth deficit.
Complete nonsense.
You have to Get jealousy under control.
Faith is not so much on you
What do you think of Zebra?
It’s annoying him, but it doesn’t seem to bother him if you’re jealous. On the other hand, he doesn’t drive to you when you say you’re horny, what he’s supposed to be. Are you sure he’s not too boring?
Maybe he’s standing for men
So I asked my best mate now, the permanent horny is on women and needs to take young and old, and every woman goes behind and speaks. He said he clearly needs sex every day, but also he has buddies who say they only need 1x a month or 1x a week sex and the rest they want to have rest and cuddle or sit on TV and cuddle with a glass of wine. Hold hands etc. Everybody’s different. I have to find out. If the guy just wants sex from me, he’d have already sunk his noodle in me. He didn’t. He’ll let it go very slowly. I can’t believe it either, because so far all men were different. He has sincere interest and I’m supposed to stop you from doing something else.