Would we be allowed to live there too?

My brother and his wife would like to build another house with two floors. My parents will live upstairs and he and his family will live downstairs. Can my brother, I and the cat live there too?

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Losona
3 months ago

He decides that and not us.

But then he finished two floors, for himself and the parents, that’s clear.

Losona
3 months ago
Reply to  Catgirl96

What are you talking about in the family when it’s so unclear?

dancefloor55
3 months ago

did he assure you that and even if: what if he changed his mind?

What if he wants to fall in love and live with his wife rather than with you?

and what a fool is not an argument. You always write that if you don’t think of anything. What else do you want to do? Don’t plan, spontaneously react, what’s left? What is the third option?

dancefloor55
3 months ago

You’re right, you don’t need a plan if your parents don’t want to worry about you anymore and your brothers don’t.

you can just wait when it happens (and it will happen once except you die before them) and then react spontaneously. But then could be a real challenge for you.

BackupBone
3 months ago

We’ve had it so often. Nevertheless, it needs a plan for their independence. If not now if the parents don’t protect them from the brother.

cherryy1999
3 months ago

Why would you give me a hand if you can’t suffer me?

cherryy1999
3 months ago

If you have a disability, you have it harder to be independent.

Nichtbeidir1210
3 months ago

You mean

cherryy1999
3 months ago

You don’t have to suffer me, but then leave me alone in the future.

Nichtbeidir1210
3 months ago

There’s nothing. I’ve tried X times! I can not suffer 🐱 or 🍒

Losona
3 months ago

Why don’t you talk to your parents? They understand you better than others.

BackupBone
3 months ago

Who’s pretending to live alone from a certain age? I don’t live alone either.

It’s not about living alone, but regardless of parents. And you do.

Who prescribes this? The human life cycle that ensures that suppliers die.

cherryy1999
3 months ago

so, that’s new to me that we are

Nichtbeidir1210
3 months ago

That you are best friends

cherryy1999
3 months ago

What do you think?

Desparativum
3 months ago

Basically correct. Catgirl, however, shares everything here, showing no willingness to change anything. It only whips over the others and looks in principle right. And this will make you, especially when you have the intention to help you belong to the cookies.

Nichtbeidir1210
3 months ago

dancefloor55
3 months ago

theoretically not – but she always asks for help here and then she ignores everything she does not get the answers she would like to hear

for example, she complains because she is supposed to put laundry together – she cannot and does not want to learn it.

she just wants advice as she can convince her father that she doesn’t have to do it, and she doesn’t get that advice.

or: How can she convince her parents not to spend money on the grandchild’s Christmas market – otherwise nothing remains for her. She wants to have advice on how to get her parents to spend their money for them only, but she never gets this from us…

cherryy1999
3 months ago

No, of course not. But we don’t care what she’s doing.

cherryy1999
3 months ago

yes

Nichtbeidir1210
3 months ago

You two are real beasts

Nichtbeidir1210
3 months ago

You live with your friend right

dancefloor55
3 months ago

but if you were still staying at home, you wouldn’t be acting like catgirl, would you?

cherryy1999
3 months ago

I don’t live anymore

dancefloor55
3 months ago

Who’s pretending to live alone from a certain age? I don’t live alone either.

do you sleep in your mother’s bed because you’re sad because X months ago your cat died and your cancer crab father must sleep on the couch?

you do NOT help GAR in the household and always have an excuse for why you can’t help?

Do you let your parents drive you anywhere and don’t use a bus and go on foot?

read her other questions… there is a difference between living at home and living at home and using the parents and being a diva.

cherryy1999
3 months ago

Who’s pretending to live alone from a certain age? I don’t live alone either.

Losona
3 months ago

28? And you still live with the parents?

Well, I think it’s time you live alone.

All you can do is clarify this.

Losona
3 months ago

Well, there must be more talks. How old are you?

BackupBone
3 months ago

No one here knows if the new house is meant for you. You can only say that to the owner of the house (the brother). As you always tell, I assume you’re not allowed to live there.

This is exactly the situation where everyone warned you here.

You can only try to convince your parents not to go there.

If that doesn’t help, it’s only with lawyer trying to sue the right of residence. Badly possible.

If you try to reach your right of residence by extortion (“I’ll let you otherwise take away the children”) as you announced it can be used against you (e.g. accelerated de-ortion).

But I think you’re not going to do anything except asking questions about it and raising your relationship.

BackupBone
3 months ago
Reply to  Catgirl96

Why?

BackupBone
3 months ago

Three quarters?

Nichtbeidir1210
3 months ago

She has two brothers who also lives in the house of the parents and the other has moved out and has a woman and two children told her sometime

BackupBone
3 months ago

How many brothers you have and which is now meant

LisaAusPisa
3 months ago

He must have nerves from pure steel. Building a house and then also hosting the relationship 👀

AngiedieSchlaue
3 months ago
Reply to  LisaAusPisa

It’s getting bizarre.

Skibomor
3 months ago
Reply to  LisaAusPisa

THESE relationship…

OhMyGoth666
3 months ago

If he and his wife build a house and he wants to take his parents with him, he must not take you, but he must not take you, nor hide, with all your limitations and obstructions from which you always speak, you will not get around a disabled institution.

If he or the couple generally know about your relationship with children, you don’t have to take a right first if you think you’d be right to take a lawyer and keep complaining whatever you mean.

OhMyGoth666
3 months ago
Reply to  Catgirl96

And your brother will know his children before you, now guess who’s got the nose in front of you.

Morticia20
3 months ago

Your dad deserved to sleep in his bed.

dancefloor55
3 months ago

Because they come sick to us

My parents jump when our daughter is sick. At some point, the nursing days are gone. Or if she’s just a little sick, Grandma and Grandpa will be careful – so we can use our nursing days if she’s sick. Otherwise, the nursing days would not always be sufficient.

Especially at Corona time this has happened very often